Does anyone feel guilty NOT participating....like you're not supporting your school? I figure that I'm volunteering in the classroom, library, and helping with things outside of class time...that's my contribution.
ARRRGGGHHHH!!!! DD is attending public school for the first time this year and this fundraiser stuff is crazy. So far since Sept. she has come home with 4 different ones, each for different things. One was for her elementary school, one for the PTO, and two for the schools overall.
That's in addition to the scholastic book orders (schools get a kickback on those in the form of free books and software), the gym equipment (stacker cups...what the heck are those at $20 a pop...the school gets a set of free ones to use for every X number they sell to parents), the room fund for treats when they do something good, items for the estimating jar (including prizes for the top 3 estimators and, if possible, consider putting enough stuff in the jar so each child can then take one home after the exercise), etc., etc.
I don't want my 6 year old going door to door to sell anything. And I am not interested in begging my fellow employees only to have to lug that crap to work with me to distribute.
After the third one came across my doorstep I called the principal and asked how many more were coming...and there were more throughout the year. I said I'm making out a check which will equal a distribution of $20 to each of the different groups sponsoring the fund raisers. Consider that our contribution.
I would just prefer they give me a bill for it at the beginning of the year...like they do for school bus service, lunches, extra curriculars, etc. I tell you, I'm starting to think private school was a bargain compared to public school. At least I knew the cost up front and no one spent the year nickel and diming me to death.