If I had to pick a day, it would be Monday. But that's because DH and I have Palo

ressies on Wednesday. Lunch is good for us too, if that is OK with everyone else. Monday will probably be our Character Breakfast (if we get the rotation I requested). But honestly, I'm not sure if my kids will be interested in going anywhere at 0930. They will probably be more interested in sleeping

...These are the kids that didn't want to go to WDW in the morning, but would rather sleep in...
So, I guess it's how "formal" everyone wants to be for the "singing".

Since kids can't go to Palo, I guess it's Lumiere's, or Parrot Cay for a sit down lunch. Passporter says that Lumiere's lunch menu changes daily, and Parrot Cay has an Asian Buffet on Monday. We are good with either one. I'm sure if we say something at Lumiere's we could get a few tables, and maybe some cakes

or something. Not sure who to contact about that, but might be worth looking into...Lunch seating is 1130-1:30 at Lumiere's and at 1200-2:00 at Parrot's Cay.
Another option is meeting on Deck 9 midship any time after 1100, and get pizza or burgers and gather up our own chairs and such. Or Topsider's buffet opens at 1200. Then it's bathing suits and casual all the way. Kids can come and go to the pools, and we can enjoy the weather...
Any other ideas?