So who is dressing the part for this Pirate Night I keep hearing about?

I know we get bandanas from
DCL but what else do you all wear ?
Any set Meetings yet for Birtday Dis Cruisers ? Or just the Dis cruisers ?? I've never been on Magic before so I don't know the rooms or anything on the ship or I'd called DCL and ask to reserve something..
Formal Nights ?? There are 2 of them right ?? Who where's Tuxes and Gowns or are just plain Suits ok?? Are normal men's jackets and button down shirts ok ?? My 2 "men" have suits they are bringing, but the other 2 men in our group said they were just bringing jackets. 1 said he might skip the formal nights all together but I asked him Not to so we can get some nice pictures taken of us.
What about weather ?? Is it still shorts and Tshirts ?? What about at night ??
Can you tell I'm getting nervous ??