When i bought my blt contract, I had no idea the obstacles that could come from purchasing from an international seller. Maybe I thought that was best for me at the time of purchase, but it wasnt with what I know now. I would have liked it if someone told me.
Even if I went through with it, I now had knowledge I didnt have before. And i would never think to ask what obstacles there could potentially be because i didnt know there were any potential obstacles. People come here to ask for advice. The problem is, I feel, when people are so rude about it and judgemental and think they know everything and new people cant have any opinion.
And I admit I have been guilty of being opionated and could have been nicer at time times, something barely anyone here will admit about themselves, but I think that almost everyone that posts on here regularly is guilty of that and get so caught up in being right sometimes or there opinion that they believe in that they dont even know they could be hurting someones feelings. Some just dont care, but I think the majority here are good people trying to help.
I dont think a lot of new people know that they are overpaying when they post here and maybe they would like to know so they can rescind if they'd like. Thats why I think when said nicely, it could help them. I know many who give advice on here daily has sometimes taken their opinion farther than they should because they truly are trying to prevent someone from making a mistake.
Its the way we say it and like I said I am a work in progress that needs to work on this too. I have been rude to people that have been rude to me or others in the past and from now on I try really hard to be mindful of that and not waste my energy.
I have been corrected several times, to the point of considering leaving Disboards because it was so negative in the past. Nobody likes being corrected. There is a difference with good advice and being a jerk just to be right.
I also learned about waiving mf from an opinion I didnt ask for and although I was pissed at the time because of how they came at me (this is why im trying to say we all need to do it in a nice way including myself) thanks to them ive saved quite a bit of money in the end. So thanks for saving me money, unsolicted opinionated jerks! I win! (Many of you know my sense of humor by now



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