Thanks for the helpful info. I have a follow up, if I may. I agree with your suggestion of having someone in our party try the ride first. We actually did this at the local amusement park a few weeks ago. However, this was possible because (due to bad weather) there were no lines.
How should we handle the line-up situation at WDW when we aren't sure if our son can ride (for BMTRR, SM or other rides)? I don't want to abuse any privileges we may be offered when we roll up to the line-up with our DS8 (in w/c) and his twin DS8 (duh, I guess you knew that!). Should my DH and able-bodied son stand in the usual line, check it out, then report back to us? Or, if we would otherwise be directed to an alternate waiting area, is it OK to go there, explain we need a "ride tester", give it a go and then either ride or not?
[I wouldn't want anyone to think we were taking advantage of our son's disability to use an alternate line-up, then having only able-bodied riders.
I have a hard time with the dirty looks we sometimes get when we accommodations are made for our son's needs. A while ago I posted about some abusive behaviour we experienced at our local (big) Santa CLaus parade. Don't these people appreciate that courageous kids like ours deserve to have something made a little easier, a little more special now and then? Would they face the challenges of disability with such dignity and grace?]
Usually we split up and each take one of the boys when we need to ride different rides due to mobility/safety. But we had hoped to stay together as much as possible, it's just the 4 of us in a HUGE place, after all.
Any advice, please?