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Humpty Dumpty had a lousy PPO
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I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy, wait, on second thought, yeah, I would!![]()
Uh-oh. I'm in deep doo-doo now!

I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy, wait, on second thought, yeah, I would!![]()



It's a good thing I love him as much as I do...
I'm angry! My dh chose to rip my living room apart right before the holidays to put in a wood stove. Don't misunderstand me, it's a very nice stove and the stone work is turning out beautifully, but he has created more work also. He also hung new sheetrock next to the stone work. So, now I have sheetrock with no paint, plus the other walls need to be painted, the hearth isn't finished so consequently no wood stove either, I have to rearrange all the furniture since I lost valuable square footage (I have a really small house, folks), and my carpet needs to be replaced since the new changes have seemed to spot-light the extremely worn areas. Don't even get me started about the sheetrock, spackle and concrete dust ALL OVER EVERYTHING!! Christmas is only 21 days away!! Oh, did I forget to mention he leaves Sunday to go hunting for a week?!!It's a good thing I love him as much as I do...
Is this turning into the ungrateful wife thread ?
I had to plunk out $880 for landscaping that I was going to use for other things. I'm not ungrateful....but the timing was way off!Kelly....I think you need another trip to Disney!! I've spent the last 35 years of my life with a man like this. I could share lots of "building" storys with you, but that's best left off this board. If your DH is anything like mine, the explanation is always...."but I'm doing this for you!"![]()
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My advice? Whenever you get the urge to say "Wouldn't it be nice to have...(fill in the blank)....keep your mouth shut! Men like these don't understand the difference between "thinking out loud"... and... "I actually want"....(fill in the blank).
I'm beginning to think that you & I have the same Karma in our lives!![]()
You're in serious need of an otter to hug!
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Actually, this is something I've been fighting for 13 years. Our house is really small and I didn't want to part with the square footage. However, with the rising cost of living, including heat, I finally gave in. Yes, I was defeated. What I SHOULD have said was, "wouldn't it be nice if you could wait until January to start this project." I wasn't thinking. I was too focused and excited about the www trip! He assured me it would be close to finished when I got home. It was BARELY STARTED!!
He is the Grinch. He has has stolen my Christmas this year!
Seriously, I am really annoyed, but if this is the worst that ever happens, I'll be happy. And yes, I need an otter to
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!!!!I don't see the problem, really. I have had a bathroom half done for 2 years and it doesn't bother my wife at all.
If I were you...I'd sleep with one eye opened. You'd be better off if she bothered you about it. Trust me, she's taken this to a whole other level..and you may be in physical danger. As in "oops officer, I'm sorry it was an accident". I'd finish the bathroom. 
Not at all! He does really nice work and I'm sure when it's finished, it will be beautiful. I'm usually a very grateful wife. And he is also blessed by having a wonderful spouse!Is this turning into the ungrateful wife thread ?
But he should have waited until AFTER the holidays to start this project.I don't see the problem, really. I have had a bathroom half done for 2 years and it doesn't bother my wife at all.
I don't have another living room and Christmas comes but once a year. I love to decorate the house, but not with that mess going on. I also wonder if we asked Ftwildernessgirl, if she would agree with you that she doesn't mind about her half-finished bathroom? 
Geez, don't mess with their trucks or their tools!!!

arruuuggg, urrhaa urrhaa, who told them about the secret hand shake? If we find out who you are, you will loose your right to stand up while you pee!!!
(*oh by the way, I have a whirlpool tub, commode and sink still in boxes, been that way going on about 3 yrs now, it's a guy thing you wouldn't understand!)
