JenniOH: welcome to the DIS! you'll find that just about anything you want to know about WDW can be answered right here.....here are some of the can't misses:
character dining:
chef mickey's at the contemporary is a family tradition for us...do it every year and love it...lots of fun...cool atmosphere..
Pooh and friends at the Crystal Palace in MK...good food, beautiful restaurant
a meal in the castle at MK....got to do it just once....really cool
at the parks....
MK:
character meet and greets
mickey's toon town(goofy's barnstormer is a perfect starter roller coaster) mickey and minnie's house are cool too and they allow for a little play time for the kids
fantasyland(do it first thing in the am or it's a zoo)
buzz lightyear, POTC, jungle cruise
depending on how adventurous your children are:
space mountain(dd did it at age 5)splash mountain & BTMRR
A hot dog at Casey's(oh boy!)
wishes and the castle at night
EPCOT:
spaceship earth
the living seas
test track
honey I shrunk the audience(although parts of it can spook the little ones), Journey w/figment
the fountain that waltz's with the music
the sidewalks the light up at night(too cool)
don't underestimate how much your children might like world showcase....take the time to explore each country....there are performers native to all the different lands that put on really amazing shows and displays of their native cultures...they are all fantastic, but, my personnel favorites are: the chinese acrobats, the living statues and the candy lady(maukee?) in Japan that makes the candy animals....kids are just mesmorized by these acts...
the kidcot stations let children make a mask that they take to each country and add something new to it...
the autogragh books and also they have a passport that can be purchased....the kids take the passport to each country they visit..they stamp and write something in their language....dd had lots of fun doing all these.....
and of course; you have to see illuminations
MGM Studios:
again, if the kids can handle them: Rockin' Rollercoaster and Tower of Terror are mgm's signature attractions
star tours
voyage of the little mermaid, muppet vision 4D, and Beauty and the Beast are all really good shows.
If you have boys, they would probably like Indiana Jones Stunt Spectacular...
the great movie ride and the backlot tour hopefully will be a little better after the rehab(this is where castastrophy canyon is)
Your kids will love Fantasmic
AK:
kilamenjaro safari
the conservation station
wonders of flight(birds)
pangani trail & the tiger trail
kali river rapids(be prepared, you will get wet)
dinosaur(caution: this can spook some young ones and it's a very jerky ride)
my minds going blank, but, that little roller coaster, spinning thing over by the carnival games
the tree of life(spend some time really checking out the detail, see how many animals you can find carved into the tree) we find different ones each time....inside the tree is the show It's tough to be a bug....this is a must see, but, again, it can be pretty spooky to the little ones(watch out for the bee's)
the kids would probably like to check out the rainforest cafe'
tarzan rocks
and probably the favorite show of the majority of disney goers: The Festival of The Lion King....awesome!
Don't forget the Water Parks:
Blizzard Beach is fun and intense....summit plumment is awesome, but, wouldn't be too suprised if your kids didn't want to tackle it yet this year...many many other slides that are awesome....great family raft ride and lazy river..
Typhoon Lagoon is a little more tropical and the slides are a little more tame that those at BB.....fantastic wave pool that shoots out 6ft waves at you....swimming with the sharks is alot of fun(but cold)...
your kids are the perfect age and would most likely love the water parks...
Still need more? how about a trip over to downtown disney and the westside? lots of shops, restaurants, movie theatre and disney quest-a interactive indoor amusement park and giant arcade-kids love this place and would stay all day if allowed...
How about a trip over to Disney's Ft. Wilderness resort and campground? there's a petting zoo and pony rides(my dd loves this), you can look for the "lawn mower tree", take a horseback ride, in the evening you can enjoy Chip N' Dales' character campfire....roasting smores, sing a longs, and a disney movie afterward...lots of fun..........after that, you could stroll over to the beach and catch the Electric Water Parade as it passes by.
Resort hopping is one of our favorite things to do...take a little time and check out all the neat things each resort has to offer...alot of fun....
Check out the Boardwalk resort area: stroll through beautiful shops and restaurants....check out the live "street" entertainers...check out the ESPN club...or stop in to Beaches n Cream over on the Y&B club side and try to tackle the kitchen sink if you dare....Or you can take a boat ride over to EPCOT or MGM Studios....or take an illuminations cruise(ressies starting 120 days out)
take the monorail through the grand floridian, polynesian & the contemporary resorts....tell the CM at the station that you want to ride in the front of the monorail and they'll hook you up....really, really, really cool......great photo ops & you might even get your monorail pilots liscense....
take the kids fishing over at POR at the fishin hole on Ol' man island....lots of fun and relaxing.....or if you want a little more of a challenge....take a chartered fishing trip on one of disney's lakes....the fishin is great and lots of fun...
As you can see, there are literally thousands of things to do with the kids, inside or outside of the 4 major parks...I know i've probably forgotten tons of things as well...
just remember, there is so much to do at WDW....more than can possibly be done in a trip or two...so, take your time and create those memories that will last a lifetime!!! have fun and enjoy you first trip.....