WeCantWait
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I'm glad you stopped lurking. I feel the same way. My DS11 is a straight A student, it is a rare event if he gets anything wrong on any test. I don't think he has studied a day in his life. My DS7 had learning disabilities and puts in PLENTY of effort to get the grades he does. I agree that reading scores out loud can harm the self esteem of the children who did not get over 90.Why not just write a personal note to the children who scored over 90? Why does it have to be a public recognition?
I can't speak for the entire country, but I know in PA students have a right to privacy regarding their grades (it may be national, I just don't know) in a public k-12 school. If grades/missing assignments are posted, it must be by the students school number.
Now, I can hear posters chime in and say, well, they just tell each other their grades anyway. True, but then that's THEIR responsibility, not the teacher's or the school's.
I just retired from teaching middle school for over 20 years.
.I understand having two children who are different academically, I do
but
would you want your younger child recognized if he did really well in art class, or played a beautiful solo at the spring concert, or scored the winning basket? Your youngest may have strengths where you older child does not.
My oldest too gets wonderful grades, he works at it but it still comes easy to him. I mentioned before how DS7 is struggling in Math and that 89 that came home the other day sent DH and I over the moon, we were so happy. Now DS12 comes homes with 100s all the time, we praise those as well because we want both of their efforts recognized. I want DS12 to feel good about his academic success, and if the teacher acknowledges that I am happy for him. Just like I want all of my kids accomplishments praised no matter what area they come in.
My favorite professor calls out the two highest scores on every test. I LOVE when I am one of those people. People often complain about him, he expects you to work for your grades(we can't have that now!)
Wonder if Mommy will call the dean if I am sad because I don't get my name called next time![]()
I don't think there needs to be a public announcement every time my children do really well. It's not something I would feel the need to go to the school and complain about but I would rather it didn't happen. My 2nd graders teacher keeps a list of children on the black board that have earned straight A's in her class. My son has said to me repeatedly that he will never make it on that list but he wishes everybody else didn't have to know. One girl who had her name on the list during the first semster, had her name erased for the second semester (she had an A- in math), she was quite upset with that.
So she should! Better yet, they should do away with grades. Why prepare them for the real world??![]()