Lynn, please stay away from that neighbor, and stay neutral to him, ie don’t talk to him or even look at him! I’ve always gotten a bad vibe from your stories about that guy, but I definitely don’t trust him.
Love the pic of the baby with the bunny, Auntie!
Our Easter was nice, but a little different this year, as well. It was the first time in 40 yrs we didn’t celebrate with DH’s family. The part of the family who lost their husband/Dad (a little before Snowysmom) wanted a quiet day, and others were working, so we all did our own thing. We could’ve gone over for dessert but my cousin was here, so we just chilled. After dinner we packed up a meal and brought it over to my elderly friend. My son and cousin came with me and it was a really nice visit, she was so appreciative. (I am really worried about her.) My sib still won’t go anywhere due to Covid and another is out of state.
I have to keep faith, Snowysmom, in order to get up and keep going everyday - not so much with home, but with work. Things are not the same as they used to be. At any rate, I find that, as hard as things can be, I have to try to see the bigger picture and remember to count my blessings. So many people I take care of have
major health issues. It can be both scary and daunting much of the time. I took care of someone last week whose problems literally overwhelmed me. I sometimes silently say prayers while there, to keep me grounded, and when I walk out the door at the end of the day on my own two feet, I have gratitude that I have made it this far without some of the problems I see (even in young people) and that I am capable of doing the job I do, caring for my family, and helping people, etc. Certainly this is not to minimize anyone else’s losses. I don’t know how it would feel to lose my DH, or God forbid, a child, I imagine I would be quite lost, without a doubt. But I think we must keep in mind our everyday blessings, as well, or maybe especially, as we navigate this thing we call life. Having loved ones around us is a blessing. My elderly friend is alone, and at a point, I think, where she needs more help. Yet she does not really have family. She says all the time how lucky my Mom was to have me. And she reminded my DS what a good Mom he has. (His reaction in agreement was sweet!) But I’m not sure she’s going to navigate her future as easily as someone who has family right there, as most of us seem to have here. That is what I spent a lot of my day thinking about yesterday, and today. I talked to someone I know who works in elder care to sort of put some feelers out to see if there are more services she might be eligible for. Trouble is, she can be stubborn!

But I am going to try. My fear is that she is going to fall and then have little choice about what will happen as they won’t be able to discharge her from the hospital into an unsafe living situation. Ugh.
Off to make some dinner. Have a nice evening, everyone.

PS It snowed in NH too!