Here is what to do if anyone else is in a similar situation:
Order the AP online and choose to have the voucher mailed to you. Do not choose the will call option. Immediately after you get your confirmation number from ordering your pass, call 407-566-4985 (ticket office) and ask them to look up your voucher number (for some reason if you will call your tickets, the ticket office is not able to see your voucher number in the computer and that's why you need to request them to be mailed). They will ask for your confirmation number and give you your voucher number for your AP. Once you get the voucher number, call 407-566-5858 (DDE office) and tell them you would like to order the DDE card. They will ask for your voucher confirmation number and your all set. Tell the DDE office that you would like a temp card to be sent to guest relations at Epcot. Once youre in the World, you can pick up both your AP's and your DDE temp card at guest relations at Epcot.
If you do not receive your voucher in the mail in time... have no fear. The woman that I spoke to at the ticket office said that guest relations only needs a photo ID and your confirmation number from when your ordered your AP and your DVC member ID card to pick up your AP.
The last time I called I spoke to a wonderful member service rep, and a very knowledgeable gal at the ticket office... thanks to those two folks... I purchased my AP's yesterday and ordered my DDE card