Prayers strongly needed please - UPDATED AGAIN post 58

[babytrees]

I am so sorry you are going through this.

You and your family have been and will stay in my prayers.

I would maybe just tell the girls that you are very, very sad right now.

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Praying for your family today. I'm sure you'll find the right words for your children.

 

[Freyja]

I´m so sorry you have to go through this. My thoughts are with you and have been in the last few days.

 

[hlbtimes2]

Sorry you are going thru this. Its never easy to loose a loved one. As for the girls, just tell them he is sick and going to live in heaven. He'll be happy and feel well there. Death is an important part of life. There is no reason to make is a mystery to them.

 

[gradtchr]

I am so sorry. I'll be thinking about you tonight.

 

[kdibattista]

I'm so sorry

 

[MB MinnieGirl]

Update -

He isn't going to make it through the night. He is already on a very high dose of morphine. I called my husband and he is already on his way home and then my little sister and I will be going to the hospital. I am so scared right now. SOOO scared.

I'm so very sorry! I wish so badly that there was something we could do for you. I am still keeping you and your fmaily in my prayers.....I'm so very very sorry you are having to face this right now.

~~~Kelly

 

[Mrs.Toad]

As for the girls, just tell them he is sick and going to live in heaven. He'll be happy and feel well there. Death is an important part of life. There is no reason to make is a mystery to them.

Melissa, you know your kids best, and what would be best for them, but I agree with this.

My dd was 3 when my dad died. She saw him in the hospital during those last days. We told her he was very sick and would die soon. Then we told her he went to heaven. She was very sad, like her dad and I were, but she was OK.

Still thinking of you and wishing you strength in this very difficult time.

 

[mommasita]

Prayers for all of you.

When my son was 5, he lost his Nonna. He saw her sick, and he saw her well. He was too young, as I think your girls are, to know the severity of it all. He is now 11, and sadly understands it too well..

He hurt, ooh boy, did he hurt..He cried, he prayed to her, and I told him he could talk to her anywhere and anytime. He talks nightly in his room to her, and tells her so much of what is going on. This makes me so ..

We also watch movies with her in them, look at pictures, as they probably won't have much memory LATER on. They will for a while, but new memories will take over. Which is a good thing also..

I did not take my children to the funeral home, or any of it. We asked a neighbour to babysit for us. I felt they were too young, my DD was 2. My advice, go with the flow, expect tears, expect confusion.

Remember, you are pregnant and to take care of YOU...

Lastly...Hugs to ALL of you.

 

[minniecarousel]

Continued prayers for you and your family.

I know this has been said before - PLEASE take care of yourself.

 

[Luv'sTink]

I am so sorry.

 

[Kitty 34]

I'm so sorry.

 

[Tasha+Scott]

OP, I sent you a PM. We are going through something very similar right now and it is just awful.

 

[Clang]

Keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers tonight. I am so sorry.

 

[munchkin bunchkin]

So very sorry to hear this! You and your family will be in my prayers !

 

[4nana]

I am so very sorry that your dear GD is nearing the end of his earthly journey sweetie. I know the heartbreak and grief of losing loving GP's and send prayers for strength and peace to you and all your family at this most difficult time. Please remember to take care of yourself and baby at this stressful time.

 

[Keli]

I'm sorry to hear this. My prayers are with you and your family.

 

[anewvance]

He's gone... my Poppy, the only father i've ever known, passed away peacefully surrounded by our family at 7:15pm. It was so peaceful, it really was. Thank you so much for all the kind words and support.

I unfortunately didn't handle it to well and started to hyperventalate and had a panic attack and ended up in Labor & Delivery. I was having contractions which they were able to stop with brethnine and procardia and a valium and they let me come home.

And now I am home.. now what? Am I supposed to try to sleep...very doubtful. I'm numb.

We are going to have the girls go to school tomorrow and will pick them up after and take them to my grandmothers house and that's when they will find out. They are not going to take it easily, it's going to be very rough on them. My mom and aunt took my grandmother home and will spend the night. My sister and I will go tomorrow morning and start discussing plans. The funeral home already came and got him.

Thank you again, I don't have many friends, really none at all. It feels better to be able to vent on here... thank you for listening. I probably won't be around awhile, but I know you guys are here.

 

[Pop Daddy]

hey

 

[Pea-n-Me]

I'm so sorry. I hope you can get some sleep tonight.