PART THREE! *December 2012 Roll Call* Holidays, FLE & MVMCP!! A very, merry thread!

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Our district will allow it, we did it in 09. My daughter had to keep a journal, do all her class work, pick something to research and write a report about, and do a presentation for the class - 3rd grade. She chose roller coasters. It was fun. To the OP, I talked to the teacher first, and together the teacher and I talked to the principal, and our absences were excused. I talked to them early though - as soon as I could.

They would still let me do it, but now that she is in Jr High I just can't do it. She missed three days early for her grandfathers funeral and she struggled for the rest of the nine weeks in honors math, and ended up with a high B average - which really disappointed her. So I feel like now we are limited to school breaks, but thats ok.

Honestly, I am amazed by the workload here. Coming from the UK I have a different perspective on it. We do not test, test, test constantly - we review. We do not cram - longer periods are spent on each section. We don't have a credit system either. And yet our kids do just fine :)
 
Ok, I need to vent before bed or I'll toss and turn all night. I still might, but oh well. This afternoon I said something to my son out of frustration--something along the lines of not allowing him to go to Disney if he doesn't buckle down, write all of his homework down, and bring his supplies home. I said this in front of my husband, and now he is running with it. He is worried about what the teacher will say when I tell her we are taking the kids out for five days, and thinks she might hold DS back because of it (she can't). I spent all night on my touring plan, working right in front of DH. When I offer to show him the Disney Store package we got today, he says, "Well, that's if Q can go." I say"oh, he's going! We're fully paid!" DH tells me I am being stubborn :yes:, and that "it's only money." ONLY MONEY! It's thousands of dollars. If I have to homeschool the kid myself (which I have considered numerous times), WE ARE GOING! Ugh. Me and my big mouth. This is what makes me wish the trip was done with already. Or at least get my "talk with the teacher" over with already so we can quit worrying about it. My neighbor told me that her friend got a Disney Cruise approved as an educational trip by our principal, so maybe I should talk to her first. I'm so over this stress.

(In case you're wondering why I chose school time to go: we've been promising our DD for 3 years that we'd take her to WDW for her 7th birthday. Her birthday is Dec. 9th. Also, my husband and FIL do not do well in crowds, so Christmas break would be paralyzing for them)

First of all ... I sympathize. My 3rd grader is a great little girl, and a good student. But OMG she is scatterbrained. They start planners here in 3rd grade too and she NEVER remembers to bring it home. She claims she writes in it ... but it doesn't come home, so what's the point?

She does her homework, but it's a struggle to make sure she remembers to TURN IT IN. I put it in her folder for her, but she says this is the first year they have to unpack everything in their folder themselves (vs just handing it to the teacher), so it's hit or miss if she actually remembers to turn in her homework. So frustrating.

Anyway, I feel you on the school thing too. We are taking the kids out for five days (3rd grade and kindergarten). This is the third year we've taken out of school for Disney. Our county allows 10 unexcused absences per year. I wrote letters to the principal for each girl about why we were going during the school year, how we would work with the teacher to make up work, etc etc ... and the principal did approve the trip. She did say it would count towards our 10 days total, but that they were approved absences, we could make up all work, etc. So definitely get the principal involved, and make sure you tell your teacher first, and cc him/her on the letter to the principal so they don't feel like you're going over their head.
 
Hello everybody have not been on in a while with all this sandy mess, praying for all those who still have no light in NY and for everybody w with damages to their houses, I have been volunteering for the redcross send we have been busy, I wanted to wish everyone a happy Halloween and let everyone know 7 more wednesdays till Christmas
 
Hello everybody have not been on in a while with all this sandy mess, praying for all those who still have no light in NY and for everybody w with damages to their houses, I have been volunteering for the redcross send we have been busy, I wanted to wish everyone a happy Halloween and let everyone know 7 more wednesdays till Christmas

Glad you're ok! And thank you for volunteering :flower3:
 

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DH was just telling me that he read about a person living in Manhattan that in order to get to work, had to take a bus to Queens to get back into Manhattan.

LIRR is still closed and I've heard the subways are also down due to flooding. Nassau county (I live in Suffolk) has even closed all of their roadways.

I don't think I've ever heard of the LIRR being closed down like this, even when my father worked for them.

I'm on my bus. It's taking forever today and I'm still not near the broken crane.

Subways are closed. Buses are free. But it's sunny with blue skies. And the city is bustling.

I haven't heard of anyone having to go to Queens to just come back into Manhattan. I know if my normal bus wasn't running I would have had to have taken two.

On a happy note, we leave in 39 days!!!
 
Well, we got a call from the vet clinic this morning. Our poor Beethoven had been hit by a car and passed away. So I'm home from work to bury him today. PLEASE posts lots and lots of fun trip plans today so when I finally get back on here I have loads to smile and laugh about!
 
Well, we got a call from the vet clinic this morning. Our poor Beethoven had been hit by a car and passed away. So I'm home from work to bury him today. PLEASE posts lots and lots of fun trip plans today so when I finally get back on here I have loads to smile and laugh about!

Oh no ... I'm so so sorry :-(
 
Well, we got a call from the vet clinic this morning. Our poor Beethoven had been hit by a car and passed away. So I'm home from work to bury him today. PLEASE posts lots and lots of fun trip plans today so when I finally get back on here I have loads to smile and laugh about!

Before I start posting fun stuff can I just say I truly, truly am sorry to hear that. My heart goes out to you :hug:
 
First, Happy Halloween......getting closer to the trip!....First quarter of school is over and grades are posted, looks like we are ok for Florida.....SD dropped spanish (almost before it started) as it was the last period of the day and with sports and meets, would miss too much to keep his gpa where he wanted it....with that said, he pulled all As but advanced geometry(91=B+)....now the youngest, we have had to use the vacation to push her to work a bit harder(I think she knows she will go cuz it is paid for, but she does need to work on 1 class).... the schools seems ok with the plans and they will only miss 3 1/2 days(maybe less IF we have a snow day at that time)....they look at it as a learning experience! and will have advance makeup paper so all work will be done before we leave...... I do know that if they reach a piont with misses, I will get "the" note....
 
M&MGirl1 said:
Well, we got a call from the vet clinic this morning. Our poor Beethoven had been hit by a car and passed away. So I'm home from work to bury him today. PLEASE posts lots and lots of fun trip plans today so when I finally get back on here I have loads to smile and laugh about!

So so sorry to hear this :(
 
Well, we got a call from the vet clinic this morning. Our poor Beethoven had been hit by a car and passed away. So I'm home from work to bury him today. PLEASE posts lots and lots of fun trip plans today so when I finally get back on here I have loads to smile and laugh about!

My heartfelt condolences to you and yours. Pets become family to those that love them.
 
Ok so in the midst of so much tragedy going on yesterday up north, 2 good things happened here (well, 3 if you count that DS submitted another college app!):

We got our photopass+ disk in the mail :cheer2:

and

We got our matching Disney Store flannel PJs :banana:

Holy cow we leave 5 weeks from tomorrow!!!!!! Yippee!! :dance3: :dance3:
 
First of all ... I sympathize. My 3rd grader is a great little girl, and a good student. But OMG she is scatterbrained. They start planners here in 3rd grade too and she NEVER remembers to bring it home. She claims she writes in it ... but it doesn't come home, so what's the point?

She does her homework, but it's a struggle to make sure she remembers to TURN IT IN. I put it in her folder for her, but she says this is the first year they have to unpack everything in their folder themselves (vs just handing it to the teacher), so it's hit or miss if she actually remembers to turn in her homework. So frustrating.
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Our elem kids have planners - they must be signed by the parent every night. If the kid doesn't bring them home to get them signed, they sit the first 10 mins of recess "on the fence" which is in front of it and watch the other kids play. Corrects that "forgetting" the planner really quick, b/c they want to play.

Our Jr High has planners this year too - but we dont have to sign anymore. Our district has a parent website where the teachers - starting in about 4th grade start loading assignments there too. Grades are online for all ages, but the younger teachers use a newsletter to send home info, some post it online, some dont, but once they hit about 4th grade everything is online AND in the planner.

At about 4th grade I stop checking homework for correct answers. I ask "is your home work done? do you have questions?" (knowing I am tracking their daily grades/assignments online. Its up to the kid to start telling me when then are struggling, and if they make a bad grade, w/o asking for help, its on them and they start loosing privileges. I want them to understand when the consequences are small, that they have personal responsibility in choices they make. My experience as a college freshman biology lab teacher made me declare "MY children will not expect their hands to be held in COLLEGE!!!" Very frustrating. lol *rant over*
 
I'm not a parent, so maybe I'm not justified in being upset about this, but I really believe family vacations are so important for many families (especially for families (like mine) who saved for years for the vacation). And to call Disney uneducational is pretty disappointing. I'm not sure I understand the rational behind the policy, especially if the student can make up the work.

They don't want parents abusing the system. I took my son out for 3 days just after memorial day the one year. He had the opportunity to go to Anchorage to see his grandparents and his Uncle graduate from High School. I got the letter and put it in the shredder. The principal was awesome about it but too many parents were taking the kids out for trips throughout the year that it became disruptive.
 
I have to come here and post because I am too excited right now to contain myself!!! Add me...officially, this time! I may already be on the list as this trip has changed so many times over the past year...and had to be cancelled. But, I just hung up with WDW and it's official...WE ARE GOING TO DISNEY!!!!:banana:
12/9-12/15 at Fort Wildnerness...MVMCP on 12/11!!! I'm going to burst!!!!:woohoo:
 
DisneyDreamerMN - I love your hair!

I'm not great today. I deal with anxiety and it's flaring up like whoa today. Not fun. Plus, I got a new tattoo last week and it's to that SUPER ITCHY stage. Blah.

But...only six weeks until Disney World. I can totally get through the day, right?
 
Well, we got a call from the vet clinic this morning. Our poor Beethoven had been hit by a car and passed away. So I'm home from work to bury him today. PLEASE posts lots and lots of fun trip plans today so when I finally get back on here I have loads to smile and laugh about!

I'm so sorry. :( Our fur babies are so special, I know its got to be hard.
 
Well, we got a call from the vet clinic this morning. Our poor Beethoven had been hit by a car and passed away. So I'm home from work to bury him today. PLEASE posts lots and lots of fun trip plans today so when I finally get back on here I have loads to smile and laugh about!

So very, very sorry. May you find comfort in all the memories you have of Beethoven. Love his name.
 
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