Frustration! I am so happy for all of you who have organized kiddos with their act together and have apps and scholarship requests (& acceptances) out there. However, I am so frustrated, my 17 DS can't seem to pull himself together to even complete apps and write the essays to apply to schools. (Remember the days when we were in college? We just applied, no essays!) He's had a tough sr year with classes and GPA - it's made him QQ what he really wants to do. He had his eye on one private school that even with aid with leave him with over $50,000 in debt. This thread makes me feel like I am the only mom out there with a kiddo that hasn't applied to a college or researched scholarships or really truly knows what he want to spend the rest of his life's work doing? Love him to death but he's making me gray! Am I alone?