I understand the cultural reason for not allowing people to cut hair, pierce ears, etc. Especially since I am here in Texas where they took all of the Fundamentalist Mormon children for about 6 weeks and later gave them all back after they found their reason for taking them was possibly unfounded (although I suspect there was some abuse somewhere and if what they suspected, sexual abuse and rape horrifies me, I would hope that it just was not within EVERY family with minor children). But you do have to question whether a parent who has had their parental rights taken away should have any say over anything pertaining to a child. I am sure this might get me flamed but really, how many times should one person get to screw up a child?
As a former teacher I cannot tell you how mad it made me to have a student who had had older siblings taken away by CPS and she was left b/c they didn't think she had been abused. Yet she walked in to school one day with a perfect semi-circular burn on her face from having it put to an electric stove coil burner. I actually couldn't see straight I was so upset.
Please, for those of you who are social workers, please don't think that this is aimed at you. I feel you are hard working and over worked. I truly believe that it is the court system that lets most of these children down. I heard Oprah say once that you get one chance at harming a child and after that society should be done with that person, and I believe that should be the case a majority of the time.
Okay, off my Off Topic Soap Box now. Back to our normal sewing chats! Sorry, and don't forget that I am a little hormonal right now!