Tnkrbelle565
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I have always wondered this, can you easily donate to foster kids some how? Each year we buy about $1000 worth of toys to donate and we have always wanted them to go to foster kids or the like vs just the salvation army or toys for tots. Can you donate clothes? Thanks for any help/answers.
I am in for whatever is decided, if we can just please post a BIG message so I don't miss it. I gotta admit I don't read it all all the time! I try though. Even if the foster kids couldn't wear the customs at disney I am sure they would love owning them.
Of the couple of foster parents I personally know, I know that it took alot of effort on the foster parents part to get permission for the kids to leave the state, so much to the point that they just chose not often to leave. The hassle was horrendous. Not sure if the type of visitation the birth parents have matters at all in a situation like this. These people were adopting both the little girls and up until the day of the final adoption they couldn't even cut their hair. It was up to the mother how their hair was and how/when she got it cut. Thank goodness now everything is finalized, such beautiful little girls!
Just wanted to comment that yes, it should be fairly easy to donate to your local CPS office. Just call and talk to them. Most toy donations are accepted around the holidays. But if you personally know any local social workers, you could donate other things too. I drive around with a bag of stuffed animals in my car in case I have an upset child. It's amazing what a stuffed animals to hug can do. We had a local church (who happened to have a few budding artists) come in and paint our visitation rooms, make them new curtains and benches, and just make them look generally more "homey"
I'm sorry to hear that you had some foster parents who decided not to take a trip with their child. It really shouldn't be any additional work for the foster parents (besides the work of actually TAKING the children

The haircut thing is true. If bio families ask for children's hair not to be cut while they are working on reunification, foster parents can't cut their hair (or pierce their ears, etc). That's due to cultural reasons.