Opinion on the pink dress: It is gorgeous! The neckline is terrific and with silver metallic shoes - WOW - for a night on the town...It reads as too dressy for Disney unless you are going to V&A. Cali Grill will still have people in khaki shorts

rolleyes1) so no need to be over dressed.
Not sure if it is because I am older

or pragmatic, but...
Here's the mom spiel (even though I am not really old enough to be your mom)...You need to return the dress. You are concerned about the color, so no amount of comments from us will change that. You LOVE the first dress and it makes you happy. From what it sounds like, you WANT to love the second dress, but when you put it on, you have doubts...I don't even think you should keep it to wear at home--it will be the dress in your closet that you want to wear, but you will always grab something else...
Take it back and buy another later that makes you feel as wonderful as the first... You beam when you talk about that dress...you sound hesitant about the second...
So I guess now each can weigh in...old or pragmatic?