utah - Tammy and I discussed our options today. We definitely want to wait a year until we get some bills paid off.
then after that, I don't know.
I don't want to have one biologically cuz I'm scared of my genes, but Tammy's family really does not need to procreate.
They've already done too much.
I'll tell you all about Tammy's family someday.
Let's just say there's murder and abuse involved. Multiple counts of abuse from different sources. I believe overcoming the issues of her family made Tammy into the incredible person she is, but I don't want to trust the luck of the draw again.
So it'll probably be fostering or adoption, most likely. Which will be hard given our "social" situation.
Although we should be able to foster older children in bad environments, which would be great for us and the children, but I want one I can KEEP!
Anyway.
We'll figure it out. I just needed to whine.
Thanks Utah and Pumba. I'm pretty happy about my progress.
Betsy - it hurt like HELL! but it was worth it. Just make sure she's prepared for the pain. The worst of it is gone by the time you leave the hospital. That's the only thing that surprised me. Make sure she goes to the seminars and reads as much as she can so she's prepared.
A lot of people have complications - I've even talked to several who almost died, but every single person I've talked to said they would do it again in a heartbeat. Tell your SIL I wish her luck!
Awww! Jeanne is making her doll do patty cake! How cute is that?