I've noticed men just don't like questions. It means they have to come up with an answer. Then they have to figure out what to say, how to say it, and how honest to be.
Mickey, if people are telling you, that you are strong, then believe it. I know how not strong I feel sometimes, but it helps thinking that at least the image I present isn't as weak as I feel. It really helps having people believe in me, even when I find it difficult.
I get some weird ones too. Luckily they've been nice wierd ones. My dd's friend's dad has left me alone for a week or so. Thank goodness. And there's a guy at work that likes me, but although he still flirts and I can tell he still likes me, he's not being so obvious about it and it's more friendly, instead of whatever it was. I'm not sure what caused the change, but it's appreciated.
I've decided that I just don't want to deal with it. Even if the perfect guy walked up to me, I probably wouldn't believe it. I've got stuff to deal with in me, I just hate to hurt anyone's feelings and don't know how to deal with that.
Anyway, it's off to work I go. See you all later, and have a wonderful day.