helenabear said:
Amen to that one!!!!!! The only underwires I found uncomfortable, are from bras that do not fit me right.
That is absolutely the case. It's not just a matter of finding the right size bra, but also the right shape. I wore VS for years, then my body changed and they didn't work for me anymore. I went through two styles over the next 15 years, neither of which fits right now, and I'm back to VS in the IPEX, which takes ten years or a kid or both off my girls according to my DH.
Your breasts change shape every 7-10 years, and with that change you need a bra change.
IMHO VS is not the best place to be "fitted." They only carry their bras, and those are generally only three "shapes." The best place to be fitted is a good department store, and IMHO the younger girls are just not trained as well as the ladies who have been fitting for years--you all know the type.
A department store--or better yet a foundation store--will have a variety of bras from a dozen or more manufaturers, and a good fitter will not only be able to get you into the right size bra, but also the right style.
I learned this from experience after spending hours trying on strapless bras beofre my wedding. None looked "right." I finally went to a "foundation store" not a VS or Fredericks type of place, but one of those places that sells lingerie of all types and can fit ladies up to 86ZZZ (or whatever the largest bra size really is). The woman who helped me took one look at my breasts and brought me the right underwire strapless. Even by looking at it I could see it was constructed very differently than all the others I had one previously. She saved me!!!
Anne