October 19th Cruisers again and again...

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Good Morning!

Not fun getting up today with the time change. Blah!

Tiffany comes home in a few days and she is really excited. I also have orders that on the way home we are stopping at Park Meadows and eating lunch at the Cheesecake Factory. Since there is a Disney Store in Park Meadows I am ok with it!;)
 
Oh my goodness did I have an interesting night last night at church. Lets see if I can make a very long story short.... We had to remove one of my girls last night because she said she was sick. Since her mother is an assistant in another class room we took her to her. Later I walked out in the hall to on my way to find one of the coordinators I needed to talk to. On the way past my room was R and her Mother. Mom tells me I am to get 2 of my other girls out of class because she is going to talk to them. One of the girls she was requesting, mother also is an assistant in the class room beside mine. R's (sick girl) mother called H's (another girl in my class) mother out of class and was laying into her. Somehow I got caught in the middle R's mother was telling H's mother that H better be nice to her daughter and be her friend. Blah blah blah..... Now H is one of the VERY sweetest girls you could ever hope to meet. She is very mature and sosososo sweet. H's mother just stood there defending H. I finally told R & H's Mother I would take the 3 girls to a room and talk to them I would not pull the 2 girls out of class. R was claiming that H and G (another sweet sweet girl) were not being nice to R.

Oh my goodness I have never dealt with anything like this before and I raised 3 girls. R's mother finally said ok as long as the girls were talked to and left. H's mother walked away in tears and after R's mother left H's mother came to me and tried to explain a long history with R and her mother. I just could not believe that R's mother was trying to force H's mother to make her daughter be R's friend! I told H's mother that H needed to be able to choose her own friends and since R had said some very hurtful things about H, H decided LAST YEAR that she no longer wanted to be close friends with R. H and G are getting close and R did not like it. There is lots more to the story but it is hard to explain.

Talk about Blindsided! :scared1: I feel so bad for H and her mother! I will tell you it will be the last time R's mother is allowed to disrupt my classroom! I was so shocked that R's mother did not see this as a very common 10 year old girl thing that the girls need to work out themselfs instead she has confronted H's mother and has also been calling them. They have a long history together but come on now.
 
to give you an idea about H's personality last night when I was talking to the 3 girls I asked H how she was feeling she said that in the past R had hurt her feelings by saying she had a moustach. (H is a beautiful girl) H said it gave her a chance to grow in Christ because it hurt her she also said she is working on not letting her looks bother her but trying to grow in her inner beauty. I love this girl!

R is very immature and jealous her responses to me showed this loud and clear.

G is so cute she said. I am the middle and I don't like it.
 
Barb - I can't believe R's mom laid into H's mom. How rude and immature. I am sure you could have handled it without R's mom lecturing and R's mom didn't even tell you the problem. I can't believe she passed by you and went straight to H's mom....I bet she thinks her child can do nothing wrong and always tells the truth. C'mon they are 10 and get jealous when they talk to someone else!!!
 

The strange thing is up until that moment I had no idea anything was going on. I guess because H & G were not trying to be mean to R. R was upset when she saw H & G walk into class together.

G's parents had an elders meeting and called H's Mom to give G a ride to church since they had to be there early. When H & G walked in together R got all upset. Nothing happened other then that. R was just jealous.

The bad part is R knows all she has to do is tell Mom and Mom will fight her battles for her and defend her bad behavior.

I am a little unsure how to handle from this point going forward if R acts up again. H should not be made to feel bad because she didn't do anything wrong.
 
I think if it happens again and R acts up and runs to her mom for help...I would ask R's mom (not confrontational, just in casual conversation) why she didn't let you handle it since you are the teacher.

This time change is killing me. I am so dragging today.
 
Oh wow Barb. I am so surprised at all that. I feel so bad for poor H! It is all about jealousy. Like you said, a 10 year old thing. Mom should have stayed out of it. Now it will be blown WAAAYYY out of proportion!
 
hi guys! Been another CRAZY week in the Lauter house! Makenzie had a research paper , repeat RESEARCH PAPER on an animal that could never be a pet that was due on Friday. She did the Cheetah. I was very proud of her. It was 2 and 1/2 pages written and 1 and 1/2 typed. She turned in both the hand written and typed. Makenzie wanted to show her teacher that she DID write her paper so that's why.

Then on Saturday, we had "sleepover at the Mall" for girlscouts. What it is, is exactly what is reads! We went to one of the local malls (Southpark- Denine) at 8pm and there were a lot of troops there from Brownie age to Sr. girl scouts). We all stayed at the "center court" of the mall until it closed.(9pm). They cleared the mall of everyone who wasn't a girlscout or a worker for the event and then the girls had the run of the mall! We took our sleeping bags to the "disignated brownie area" and then the girls went shopping! They had several stores open for this event that girls love~ Build a Bear, Claire's hair and fashion, Limited Too, Dick's sporting goods, Aeropostales(sp) and several others. We also have an indoor glow in the dark putt putt course in this mall as well for the girls to do. They had McDonald's and Subway open late if anyone wanted to eat, a popcorn stand and a Pretzel stand as well. Plus they had inflatables all over the mall! Makenzie did a bungi cord trampoline thing and they all went down the inflatable slide. They had a dance party at midnight and at 2am did a count down to spring and when the clocks changed, they showed the movie High School Musical for the girls. Our troop made it half way threw the film before they wanted to go to sleep. The girls finally fell asleep (well the last one) was at 4:30am. I got about 20 minutes if anything. I couldn't sleep since this was the first time we did anything like this, so I was watching our girls like a mother hen. the other leader and myself talked most of the night and at 6:30am we finally went and got some coffee. We got the girls up at 7:30am and we had to leave the mall at 8:30am. The mall was "locked down" for then night and you couldn't get in or out (unless it was an emergency) until they unlocked the doors at 8:30am. There was PLENTY of secruity there and EVERYONE had to wear a color coded name tag. (girls were yellow, troop leaders and other parents were orange, event staff were pink and people working in the stores or stands were green). IF you didn't have a name tag on, they escorted you out of the mall. I was very pleased with the secruity there.

Yesterday we tried to catch up on some sleep and then today was "back to the grind". SO..... that's what has been going on with us!

Barb, sorry you had to go through that. Hopefully the girls can work it out by themselves and the mom's can stay out of it.

Heidi, Garry has some training coming up too. He's going to Vegas for 3 days! Nice training huh!

Sandy, I'd help you with your basement, if you help me with mine!!!

Denine, hope everything works out with Jerry's work. You sure you couldn't work in a long weekend in June???????????? Tom and Jerry will be missed~!

Jeanne, how's everything going? Glad to see you posting!

Hi Sally! I hope everyone is staying healthy!

Barb, we are going to WDW on the 5th of June and coming home on the 21st. We are staying at the BWV's in a one bedrooom. Boy do I love the location of the BWV's! We even saved points by getting a standard view room! Now those are hard to come by.

Well gotta go. I'll be back later!!!

TTFN
 
want to hear something funny. I am arranging to have a sleep over for the girls. For some reason girls LOVE sleep overs. ( I don't!!) So I planned the sleep over when Tiffany will be here so I have a scape goat :lmao:
but anyway I was going through my list today of girls that are coming. I had 2 request from Moms to stay also and guess who it is?? Yep H & R Moms.

Ummmmm NO! I love H's Mom I know now she was probably worried about H and wanted to be there to protect her from R.

Did I tell you that both H and R came from another church. H's family started coming to our church last Spring before long R's family followed. H's is home schooled and now R is too.
 
Julie, I feel so bad for Garry. :lmao: Bless his heart. Having to go to Vegas for work. Poor guy! Sheez, maybe we should come up with some sort of conference and meet somewhere. :rotfl: What could we call it? The mall sleepover sounded well planned. I am glad that Makenzie and you could participate. I can't believe research papers are starting so young. I remember my girls had quite a bit of homework that I questioned whether it was age appropriate. But then again, they didn't go to their local school.

Barb, a sleepover??? Hope you don't want any sleep!:rotfl2:
 
Julie - the mall lock in sounds like a blast. I would have loved to do that as a kid!!!!

Barb - What did you say to the mom's about the sleepover? I can't believe they want to stay over. I understand them wanting to protect their DD's, but they are 10 and need to let the girls spread their wings a little bit.
 
Good Morning!

Hope everyone had a good evening. I have a few projects to finish this week before Tiffany comes home so I better get on the ball.

Is anyone watching "Amazing Race"? Sure was glad to see Rob and Amber get the boot. I can't stand Rob's attitude. There are a few other teams on there I would like to see go. I still like the beauty queens.

I know what you mean Sandy about not getting any sleep but with having Tiffany and her friends run it I figured I will get a break and can go hide somewhere:lmao:
 
Heidi- You would be surprised how many of my girls have not even spent the night away from home yet. I was shocked last year when we had the sleep over and several could not come because parents were not ready to let them stay overnight.

At the time I answed the Moms about staying I was like "Sure the more crowd control adults we have the better"! Now I am a little concerned about R's Mom. She seemed pretty nice before this but now I just don't know what to think. I mean she is still nice but with a "scary flare":scared1:
 
My computer is running very slow again today. SOOOOO irratating!:badpc:
 
Julie-I that mall overnight sounds SUPER FUN! I would have loved that when I was a girl scout!
 
Barb - you had me :rotfl2: when you described R's mom with a scary flare!!!!!:rotfl:
 
I liked the scarey flare as well. BUT....what's scary is that now you will feel that you have to "tip toe" around her. Just in case she "goes off".
 
At least this time I am prepared for her. I will not be dragged into the middle of a ridicules argument again. It just took me by such a surprise last time. If it happens again I kick some overprotective mom bu**
 
At least this time I am prepared for her. I will not be dragged into the middle of a ridicules argument again. It just took me by such a surprise last time. If it happens again I kick some overprotective mom bu**

YOU GO GIRLFRIEND!!!!! :cool1:
 
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