Hi there Gina,
Niagara weekend packages are a great deal. We stayed at the Quality on Clifton Hill with a pool side room. The package was $220 incl. tax. Included $30 at Boston Pizza, $10 @ Tim Horton's, 2 passes for the ferris wheel ($20), tokens for arcade game area. Kids loved it.
We have done the Great Wolf and it is out of this world. Expensive, but our kids will love it. That is a place you want to hit mid week. The lines for the water slides can be quite something on a weekend. Michelle is a girl guide leader and took her group there last year. She was actually one of the leaders in your nec of the woods when we lived in Ajax.
Were (us and the 2 other families) planning to fly out of Toronto on the friday morning before the cruise. Land about noon, rent cars and head to the Magic Kingdom for
MNSSHP (a must, we did it this past sept). It would be fun if we were all on the same flights. As we get closer I will keep you up to date with our travel info out of Toronto. (I think you were considering flying from Buffalo).
If we didn't have friends flying down with us and staying at MCO Hyatt, I would seriously consider booking into Saratoga Springs with Kritter and the others. I just had to bank a bunch of DVC points since Michelle is due in January and we can't travel probably until June (earliest).
Here's looking forward to next October all parents sitting around the pool together relaxing with cocktails watching the kids have a blast.
DH Alex