But these people are tourists, and the restaurants are entertaining for kids. I lived in NJ my whole life and went into NYC all the time as a kid and we often did touristy things like that cause they're fun. We don't head to those restaurants just to eat, we have other preferences for that, my own being several places in Little Italy. But for doing the tourist thing when we have friends visiting or whatever, those are unique places you can't find all over.
I only say this because you said you've lived in NY for years before checking out WOD and I'm wondering if you mean the old one or the new only that opened in, I think, 2005? The old one was just an average
Disney Store, but the new one has various character meet and greets and lots of free activities for kids all day long. My kids always ask to go there to make a craft and get face paint.
If the trip were just the OP and her husband I would completely agree with you, but with a toddler, if you don't add some fun, little kid things in throughout the day, they start to revolt.