So, we bought into the Disney Vacation Club last year, and this November we hoarded some points so we could get a 2 bedroom at Bay Lake Towers (sleeps 9) for 8 nights. We booked the room at 11 months out (last December), and invited my brother, his wife, and their 2 year old as well as my husband's sister and her child. Well, we're now 4.5 months out, and no one will confirm or deny that they are coming! At this point, we're going to keep the 2 bedroom for 8 nights regardless, as DVC fills up pretty quick and we bought our plane tickets, but it's wreaking havoc on my ability to make ADRs or any kind of park plans!!

With
free dining now potentially opening up during our dates, I feel a panic to get some meals booked before it's an impossibility. I've already booked 2 CP dinners (one for 4 people, one for 6), one of which I'll have to cancel later, cause husband's sis may be coming (I don't think the 2 year old family would be able to sit still for that one). Also tentatively booked CRT and Chef Mickey's towards the front of the trip for my two year old niece. Now, what should I do? Make THREE reservations for every other meal we might want, for parties of 4, 6, and 9?
This is making me certifiably crazy! I don't mean to sound ungenerous, but we are putting them all up for free, they just need to buy plane tickets, park tickets, and pay for their own food. I don't believe those costs are an issue for either family, particularly because both are in SouthWest flight paths. The villas even have kitchens so we don't have to eat out if we don't want to. They had all asked to be invited....
Help, I need some serious counseling!!! This is supposed to be fun...