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[thebeesknees]

Praying for your sister! Have you or your sister ever read the book, Heaven is for Real? There is a chapter in the book that deals with a miscarriage and what brought comfort to the mom after her young son, Colton told her about having two sisters.
This last part is from page 97:
"You do all the right things, eat all the right things, and you pray for the baby's health, but still this tiny baby dies inside you," she had once told me. "I feel guilty. I know in my mind that it wasn't my fault, but there's still this guilt."
"We had wanted to believe that our unborn child had gone to heaven. Even though the Bible is largely silent on this point, we had accepted it on faith. But now, we had an eyewitness: a daughter we had never met was waiting eagerly for us in eternity.
Hope this will bring some comfort to you and your sister at this time. I know I'll be seeing a brother in heaven one day that my mom lost in a miscarriage. He would have been the second child. I would have been born after him but instead I have a younger sister that I am close to here on earth.

Thanks so much, Pooh. I sent her a little booklet that was helpful to me after my last miscarriage, but I'll see if I can get ahold of this book, too. I talked to her this morning, and she is very fragile right now. Things have started progressing naturally for her, so she won't need to go in for the D&C if all continues as it should, but she is emotionally worn out and exhausted from not sleeping since she found out on Tuesday. Also, her doctor said they won't do any testing to see what happened until she has 3 miscarriages (although I told her that with the one in the spring and this one with twins, it should count as 3). They had told me the same thing, and immediately after my third one they did testing and found out I have a clotting disorder that was sabotaging my pregnancies. This sister got tested for it before she had kids and came back negative for it, but another sister has it so it was good to know so she can perhaps avoid some of the issues I had. So maybe she has something else going on, or maybe it was just incredibly bad luck twice in a row.

Judy, hope all went well both for Rachel and David yesterday. Thinking of John and the rest of the family as you decide how to best treat him, and for JJ to be able to avoid the anxiety that is triggering his tics.

 

[kayrosek]

Thanks so much, Pooh. I sent her a little booklet that was helpful to me after my last miscarriage, but I'll see if I can get ahold of this book, too. I talked to her this morning, and she is very fragile right now. Things have started progressing naturally for her, so she won't need to go in for the D&C if all continues as it should, but she is emotionally worn out and exhausted from not sleeping since she found out on Tuesday. Also, her doctor said they won't do any testing to see what happened until she has 3 miscarriages (although I told her that with the one in the spring and this one with twins, it should count as 3). They had told me the same thing, and immediately after my third one they did testing and found out I have a clotting disorder that was sabotaging my pregnancies. This sister got tested for it before she had kids and came back negative for it, but another sister has it so it was good to know so she can perhaps avoid some of the issues I had. So maybe she has something else going on, or maybe it was just incredibly bad luck twice in a row.

Judy, hope all went well both for Rachel and David yesterday. Thinking of John and the rest of the family as you decide how to best treat him, and for JJ to be able to avoid the anxiety that is triggering his tics.

Thank you for your prayers for John. My prayers are with your sister as well. I have been through several miscarriages as well and know the heartache they can bring. I can't believe her in laws said that.

Thanks Judy, Andrea and Micelle for your prayers as well they are greatly appreciated.

 

[kaoden39]

Thanks, Michele. My heart aches for her and I wish I lived closer so I could just give her a hug and whisk her away for a bit.

Glad to see the progress on your house - it is starting to come along, isn't it?

Hope Rachel got some helpful treatment today and is able to get some rest afterward, I'm sure it will wear her out.

I am blessed that I have never had to deal with this but I have a dear friend that had a terrible time conceiving and the horrible thoughtless things that people would say to her just were heart breaking. My prayers continue for all of you. I know that this must bring back pain for you too.


It is coming along. The city inspector comes out next week again and then our windows get put in. It is an exciting time.


Judy, praying that today goes well for Rachel.

 

[Restrasz]

Prayers for EVERYONE IN NEED! May God bless you all! Ruth

 

[happybelle]

Praying you are well.

 

[ladylyons]

Judy continued prayers for Rachel. Hope your able to get some answers today.

Would you all please add my sister to your prayer list? She went for her second ultrasound yesterday to measure the babies, and they could not get a heartbeat for either of them. They think she lost them shortly after the first u/s as they had not gotten any bigger. She is devastated, this is her second miscarriage this year, and she still had all her pregnancy symptoms when she went in yesterday, so it blindsided her. Her doctor wanted them to decide immediately to do a D&C today, but she asked for a little time to process everything before she decides what to do next. Her in-laws told her after her first miscarriage that it must have been something she did to cause it (I had some choice words about that, grrrr), and she is very stressed about what they will say to her. She had her husband call them to tell them, but she said she knows she will have to see them at some point and right now, she is too upset to deal with them on top of this. I have had several miscarriages as well so I know a bit of what she is feeling, but at least I didn't have the very hurtful comments from the in-laws to deal with.

Oh no! I'm crying for your sister tonight! I fully understand the pain she's going through both emotionally and physically as I've also had numerous miscarriages. Only 1 of those do they think they know what caused it (and they've tested everyone of mine expect for the last one). I really hate some of the nasty comments that get said by some very insensitive people. Some of the worst one's came from my own sister and even my mom said some pretty hurtful one's (neither of them have ever had a miscarriage). Maybe she can try talking to her Dr. again and push for them to do testing (especially since her last one was so recent, that's why they tested my 2nd one, it was 8 months between miscarriages). I know different Dr.'s will do different things but sometimes they'll do more if pushed. Prayers for your sister and I really hope she can get answers and only surround herself with supportive people right now.

 

[cantwaittoseemickey]

Praying for Rachel today, that she will be able to get some help in her recovery at the concussion clinic. Also for David - what a big step for him. I'm praying for John and the rest of the family as you deal with this new symptom, that you would have grace and peace as you try to get the best treatment for him.

Would you all please add my sister to your prayer list? She went for her second ultrasound yesterday to measure the babies, and they could not get a heartbeat for either of them. They think she lost them shortly after the first u/s as they had not gotten any bigger. She is devastated, this is her second miscarriage this year, and she still had all her pregnancy symptoms when she went in yesterday, so it blindsided her. Her doctor wanted them to decide immediately to do a D&C today, but she asked for a little time to process everything before she decides what to do next. Her in-laws told her after her first miscarriage that it must have been something she did to cause it (I had some choice words about that, grrrr), and she is very stressed about what they will say to her. She had her husband call them to tell them, but she said she knows she will have to see them at some point and right now, she is too upset to deal with them on top of this. I have had several miscarriages as well so I know a bit of what she is feeling, but at least I didn't have the very hurtful comments from the in-laws to deal with.

Oh my goodness. I am so very sorry. Our prayers for your sister and her husband. What an awful thing to say to someone.

 

[cantwaittoseemickey]

Judy I am praying that Rachel is improving today and that the apt went well. Also prayers for your family. I am also praying for those who need it. I apologise I cannot keep up with who is who. I have tried but it just doesn't work

We found out what was going on with Ty. He had a uti that caused him to almost pass out. He is doing much better now.

 

[happybelle]

Thinking of you. Let us know how Rachel is doing when you are up to it.

 

[lovethattink]

I tried to call you yesterday, Judy. Once again it asked for a remote password? Anyway, I hope Rachel and Lisa are feeling better.

JJ's tics are worse, but his seizures have been few. I appreciate everyone's prayers. I posted an update about JJ on my TR.

thebeesknees, My heart breaks for your sister. Sending you a pm.

Kayrosek, Praying for John.

 

[kayrosek]

I tried to call you yesterday, Judy. Once again it asked for a remote password? Anyway, I hope Rachel and Lisa are feeling better.

JJ's tics are worse, but his seizures have been few. I appreciate everyone's prayers. I posted an update about JJ on my TR.

thebeesknees, My heart breaks for your sister. Sending you a pm.

Kayrosek, Praying for John.

Tink
Thank you for your prayers. Jj is in our as well. Praying his tics get better.

Judy
Prayers for a good day for Rachel and all of you.

 

[danygirl]

praying for all the needs as I read this.

 

[blessedmom4]

Thank you for the continued prayers/messages. I will not lament how busy I have been with extra MD appts/one car/ etc. You all I understand and I THANK YOU!

Rachel’s MD appt at the concussion center didn’t reveal any new information, it just reinforced what we know. This traumatic brain injury (their words) is going to take more time to improve and we must ensure she not re-injure herself during this time of healing. It can take 3 weeks for people Rachel’s age to improve. Those with a migraine history (which she has) typically take longer to recover. Her memory/speed testing had not improved at all, nor had her concussion rating scale...she was twice what they would have expected her to be over a week out from her concussion. Worrisome, to say the least. I am trying to be calm and not over-react. I am exceptionally thankful for your prayers.

The week has been fraught with the challenges we all face daily. Christian dealt with his first flat tire (on the interstate), I had an MD call in the wrong strength of medication and another send an order to the wrong home heath agency. Lisa has outgrown her wheelchair, yet insurance will not pay for a new one ($2,700 was the total price of her last one) until after February, even though she has grown so tall quickly....there is more; but, you get the picture. The funny thing is I didn’t even realize it wasn’t fitting correctly, the physical therapist told me...Lisa has gotten so tall this year! I just sit here sometimes and shake my head at the “stuff”, if you only knew the half of it. I can hardly believe it sometimes, I am certain you can’t either. I honestly hate to answer the phone most days.

Thankfully it is the weekend. I would appreciate a concentrated prayer for a compete healing for Rachel. She is bored, frustrated, worried...I am spending lot of time keeping her quiet and calm; but engaged...she is missing out on so many incredible opportunities and that makes her unhappy. There are two big ones coming up this week and I just don’t think she will be able to participate and that is going to be very upsetting to her...which is NOT good for a concussion! It is a vicious cycle.

I know SO MANY OF YOU are having hard, difficult days. Please know I am praying; however, like Jennie, I hesitate to call any needs out because I would not want anyone to think I am ignoring their needs, nothing could be further from the truth! My prayers for you are constant!

I DO have some plans for our trip brewing; however, I don’t want to get too excited, just in case. I also hope to post our last movie night, it was Rachel's turn and we had a great time. Pete is on deck this week (we skipped last week). We are going to try and do it tomorrow, Christian has a good friend coming in to town to celebrate his BD a week late and he is leaving shortly to meet him.

 

[lovethattink]

Bummer about the flat tire for Christian. Guess he got initiated full fledge, on the highway. That's how dh got initiated at age 16. But how nice that he is going to meet a friend.

So sorry Rachel is missing special events this weekend. Did this new place continue the bedrest? I can only imagine the challenge it is to keep her engaged and calm. I dread doing that for those 24 to 48 hour EEG, but this has been day in and out for you.

I hope Lisa and David are doing well.

I'm sure that even if your plans fall through, that just being in FL will be a good escape. I know staying at SSR was a great escape for us. Even though JJ never made it to a park. And our one trip out to eat, ended up with the waiter packing up dinner in carryout containers and us heading back to the resort.

After that, he stayed in the room, the patio, and out only venturing out was to make crafts at the Community Hall and roast marshmellos at the campfire. It still felt like heaven and we had a fantastic time!

Our trip up north is up in the air. At this point, if things don't change, it's cancelled. But I'm not giving up the hope that he will get well enough to travel in a month.

 

[pwdebbie]

Continuing to pray for your family, Judy, as well as all the requests mentioned here. My thought today is that God is going to show himself powerful on our behalf! Now that is good news right from the good book.

 

[homeschoolmomof4]

Praying for Rachel. My David had two concussions within a year of each other and the recovery was never fully complete after the second one. He still has some short term memory issues. I'm praying that the Lord gives Rachel some peace while she struggles through the recovery process. It's not easy to "rest" as a teenager and I'm sure it's so frustrating to her. My David really struggled with the whole "resting" idea as well. (((HUGS)))for Rachel and for you too Judy.

Oh and I meant to tell you that David's sinus surgery went very well. He can actually breathe through his nose!! We had a slight issue with the post op nurse who did a horrible job with pain management. When the child's blood pressure is through the roof and he's crying because of the pain, clearly the pain isn't being well controlled. Ticked me off to no end. I warned the nurses in pre-op that David has a high pain threshold(he's had necrotizing fasciitis, broken and necrotic bones, blood poisoning and all sorts of injuries with knowing it) and still when he said his head hurt they didn't take it seriously. They got a lovely note from me when I filled out the survey for the Surgical Center. Don't mess with a momma bear! Roar! LOL!

 

[katiee37]

I've been reading along and I just wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to Rachel and to your whole family! You definitely have a lot on your plate but your kids are definitely lucky to have a mom like you who cares so much about them.

 

[McDuck]

I am praying for full healing for Rachel. I will put her on our Sunday School prayer list if that is okay.

We took Kaity to a Build and Grow Clinic at Lowe's today--it was our first time doing it and she had so much fun!

I can't wait to see the movie night pics and also hear what Pete comes up with for his turn! I'm sorry to hear about all the frustrations (and sorry to know there are others you haven't said). I am lifting you all up in prayer.

Much love and

 

[kayrosek]

Prayers for Rachel and all the other struggles. You are all in our thoughts.

 

[ladylyons]

Continued prayers for Rachel!

Can't wait to see the next movie night pictures.

We took Kaity to a Build and Grow Clinic at Lowe's today--it was our first time doing it and she had so much fun!

I took the kids to one today too. They loved it!! We built Dusty from Planes (well actually I ended up building all 3 of them!!) We're already signed up for the next one in a couple weeks where we'll be building El Chupacabra.

Here they are with their finished Dusty's.

Sarah


James


Jeremy