Hi Marla! I'm glad to see you pop in!
About the swim team, I was so wishing for my kids to be involved in swim, but it wasn't to be. I know swimming does great things for a body, especially when started young. My youngest son is 15 and has a great body for swimming, tall and lanky, and if he was a swimmer, he'd have the awesome shoulders to match! Oh well! He's a handball player, but that's a spring activity. He's hoping to make first team at his high school, so we shall see.
I have good news, I finally decided I didn't want to be fat anymore, and have made some serious changes in my eating habits, and have lost 6 pounds in the last two weeks. I'm on a lifetime medication that is notorious for slowing down the metabolism, and I've been using that as an excuse for too long. My blood pressure was up, I have sleep apnea and, and I just can't be as active as I'd love to be with this extra 50 pounds on me. I'm short, 5'3, so 50 extra pounds is like 100 on my frame. The good thing is that I don't feel like I'm dieting, just changing things, and that mind set is really keeping me on track. I also have a history of diabetes in my family, and I don't want to risk it anymore. So wish me luck, and hopefully by cruisetime I'll be slimmer and healthier.
More good news, I just got the mail, and got Jesse's P-SAT scores. This kid has been driving me freakin crazy with his "forgot to do my homework", "I didn't know we were having a test", "my teacher never taught us that", "I don't need to study" declining grades. Well, thank heavens he shows potential, as he scored in the top percentile on the P-SATs! So now I'm going to buckle down on him with his regular school work and take NO excuses. I've been so worried about his lack of motivation, especially after having a scholar like Chad, and it drove me nuts that Jesse wasn't even TRYING to do well. He's more interested in his looks and his social life, but NO MORE!!!! (Can you tell I'm on a roll here?!

) I don't expect him to study his brains out, but c'mon, just do your homework for a change! So now that I see his fab scores, I'm going to lovingly, sweetly, brutally encourage/demand he do better in school. He's in 10th grade, and next year is the year colleges look at, so there's no more time for slacking. Other than his poor school grades, he's such a beautiful, great kid, never a problem out of him, never a smart-a s s word out of his mouth. And he's so good to his mama. My baby!
Anyway, I'm sitting in my kitchen waiting for my tea to brew, and I should be doing laundry. So I'd better get to it, or else the pile in the laundry room is going to be outrageous!
And Miss Tiggie dahling, don't you know you're not ever ever supposed to mention the transgender birthday party! When Chad runs for president, his opponents will find these posts and there goes my chance to be First-Mother of the USA!!!
Nanette, more pics of the baby when you can!