The wonderful thing about Disney is they offer resorts for every budget and lifestyle. Only the individual can make that decision, based on the excellent feedback this board provides.
For most of us on this thread, WL is our Shangri-La from out normal everyday world. For me personally, it is a link to a more pleasant time in my life. My DD, DGD & I fell completely in love with WL, and hence our return trip in September. We enjoyed the complete absence that we were in FL or a theme park. We also looked at other resorts during our stay and could agree there was only one other that would be given a consideration.
We loved the Themeing, atmosphere and service. We enjoyed taking one day and just hanging out at the Lodge and pool to recharge our batteries. We enjoyed our fellow guests and felt like we knew each other for a longtime, everyone being pleasant and helpful.
My suggestion is to keep your reservation for WL, if after you enter the massive front doors and enter that impressive lobby and do not experience Goosebumps go straight to guest relations and request a transfer. I know they will oblige, however be warned, part of you will not leave WL and you will always be yearning to return.