jemiaule
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Also, DH and I got invited to his cousin's wedding. I told DH that we were not going, because his cousin didn't come to our wedding, didn't even send a card of congratulations. All because the cousin didn't want to be around his own dad (long story)
So, why would we go and celebrate him getting married? I don't want to waste my time for someone who didn't have the time to celebrate with us. Case closed.
Sorry if this comes off poorly - but I think this was not very nice of you.
If you do not want to go to the wedding that is perfectly acceptable; but I don't think it is fair for you to tell him *we* are not going. It is his cousin, he can decide if he wants to go or not.
If my husband pulled something like this on me I would tell him to stick it where the sun doesn't shine. He would have every right not to attend himself; but he would have no business telling me I could not go.