Well, we went for our first experience with a party at Disney World. The boys (10 and 12) were happy, but my husband and I were not. We had an ADR at LTT for 4:10. That was fun, the characters and cast members were all decked out in costumes. After dinner we went and turned our tickets in for wristbands and orange candy bags, although we had brought some that closed for the boys.
We were not hearded into one area of the park at 6:00, although I had heard that that might happen. Even the CM that gave me the wristband told me that it could happen. The rain did put a damper on the evening and it was very buggy and HOT! Disney could not be held responsible for any of this, though. However, there was no free picture and the free face painting for one of my sons was much worse than the other. One child's paint turned out really, really well. The other was like if I did it myself, and I have no artistic talent at all. I can't even draw a stick figure! I really think they should have let this girl get a little more experience in before putting her out there to paint faces.
Now, for the candy... both my husband and I got strange looks when we went through the lines with our boys. The CM's would only give us one or two pieces each. The kids would get plenty, but the CM's would look at the adults weird. I know it wasn't only just us because the next night while waiting for our pager to go off at Boma for dinner, I talked with another couple who had the same experience at the party. I am of the opinion that since my husband and I paid almost $80 to attend this with our kids (which cost an additional $80), we should be able to go through the candy lines without a hassle.
All in all, the kids had fun but I would not do it again.