You can call me a troll, that's fine. But you cannot ignore it.
How would any of you feel if you came across a discussion board that your SO frequented and found things like the male poster I am referring to? How would you like it if your husband was sitting for hours on end, publicly posting overtly flirtatious statements online? Constantly

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, calling other women pet names, etc. This is not innocent fun, and you all are deluding yourselves if you think it is. Imagine how you would feel if you saw that.
And this isn't "support for a friend". I have seen so much inappropriate posting in public, I cannot imagine what goes on in the PMs and MSN chats he is always referring to.
To the male poster with the city in your name: spend some time with your family. This behavior is just creepy and wrong.