Dumb question - what do I use to clean and de-mildew a very delicate, 35-year-old lace trimmed linen handkerchief? It was my wedding handkerchief and my mother's before me, which is why I didn't throw it out. I am, however, ripping the personalizations out, since we're both divorced
Obviously I need to handwash it. Should I use Woolite, or dish soap...?
I am staying awake until 4:30 am--DS needs money (his Visa card isn't activated! & remember, he is in Spain). Every time he calls we just miss him. Have stayed home for 2 days, we go out @ 6:30 PM (our time) & wouldn't you know he calls (but doesn't try our cells!)
Okay,
do not take that hanky to the dry cleaners!
Take it outside & gently brush off the mold; brush on both sides.
Using a square of new, clean fiberglass screening sitting on top of the item,, take a vaccuum, perhaps with a
clean brush attachment & on
lowest suction, vacuum both sides of the handkerchief.
Now, in a basin of
cool, distilled water(hard water & soap wreak havoc on old linens) & Orvis Quilt Soap or Ivory Flakes swish that hanky around.
You may want to do this to Tommy James & the Shondells...
Rinse, rinse, rinse w/more cool distilled water.
If soap is left in the material it will leave brownish spots.
DO NOT WRING!
Just stare blankly at the dampened hanky and ask how it knew to call you there...be sure any troublesome neighbors witness~
Now lay out hanky on immaculate

unbeached/undyed cotton towel.
Damp dry in the sunlight.
If you plan to press, do not let hanky get totally dry.
Use a moderate iron w/a press cloth to iron handkerchief. Iron from the wrong side. Do not iron fabric dry.
When totally, positively dry place between two sheets of archival tissue & either leave flat in a roomy drawer (NO cedar closets,plastic wraps or boxes, or mothballs).
You may place this tidy package in with yr VS stuff.
Warning! This last step may give certain someones around here the DTs!!
If mildew persists you may want to try a weak dilution of Biz in place of the Orvis/Ivory Snow flakes.
Some people swear by soaking a few hrs to overnite.
This depends on the embroidery thread--it's colorfastness--so you may want to try in as unconspicuous area as possible.
Geez, this gave me something to do--now on to eat some watermelon & watch LOTR!
wish I had some cigarettes!