manateesmom
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Best practice is to have one. The issue isn't DCL's requirements, it's the requirements of U.S. law and the countries you will visit. Parental/custodial kidnapping happens. There is a federal law called the International Parental Kidnapping Crime Act ("IPKCA"), which makes it illegal for one parent to remove a child from the country for purposes of interfering with another parent's custodial rights. Homeland Security, which is now responsible for border control, enforces the IPKCA. Here's more info: https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/ojjdp/215476.pdf The U.S. has "treaty partners" who have agreed to a treaty with similar provisions to prevent international kidnapping, and that's most of the places you'd visit on vacation.
That's the reason you MAY be asked for proof that the other parent knows you're traveling with the child. It's far more likely to be an issue if you are, say, driving across the border into Mexico than if you're getting onto a cruise ship. Still, it is possible that you could be asked for this information before you are cleared through DHS to leave the country, before you enter any foreign country, and when you return to the U.S. (to be sure you aren't wanted for kidnapping).
Yes, I'm sure it's highly unlikely and rarely happens, and that everyone's experiences posted above are correct. In fact, that really kind of bothers me, because in case my husband ever thought to abduct our son and leave the country with him, I'd certainly hope for enforcement of these laws. A cruise ship would be a pleasant, non-suspicious way to get to a foreign country, and you could then walk away with the child, kwim?
DCL doesn't necessarily care because it's not their policy, it's a matter of federal and international law. To be sure you won't be delayed or hassled, it's best practice to have authorization from the other parent just in case. It may be overly cautious, but if it were me, I'd have some kind of notarized document/letter saying the other parent is aware of this specific travel (i.e., dates, plans, ship name, ports) and a phone number to reach the other parent.
That's the reason you MAY be asked for proof that the other parent knows you're traveling with the child. It's far more likely to be an issue if you are, say, driving across the border into Mexico than if you're getting onto a cruise ship. Still, it is possible that you could be asked for this information before you are cleared through DHS to leave the country, before you enter any foreign country, and when you return to the U.S. (to be sure you aren't wanted for kidnapping).
Yes, I'm sure it's highly unlikely and rarely happens, and that everyone's experiences posted above are correct. In fact, that really kind of bothers me, because in case my husband ever thought to abduct our son and leave the country with him, I'd certainly hope for enforcement of these laws. A cruise ship would be a pleasant, non-suspicious way to get to a foreign country, and you could then walk away with the child, kwim?
DCL doesn't necessarily care because it's not their policy, it's a matter of federal and international law. To be sure you won't be delayed or hassled, it's best practice to have authorization from the other parent just in case. It may be overly cautious, but if it were me, I'd have some kind of notarized document/letter saying the other parent is aware of this specific travel (i.e., dates, plans, ship name, ports) and a phone number to reach the other parent.