The table that was set for 6 wasn't bare. Have you looked at my PJ? I have pics of the room, not a ton but it'll give you an idea of what the room looked like.
We didn't have huge centerpieces either and we only had 35 guests and 4 were under 3 years old. we had 4 tables, one was full (10), the other three were under ten people and looked fine. We only used the upper part for the reception room then the downstairs area was set with highboys tables for the prereception. I'll post the pic ofthe room set up my planner sent me
This helped me picture what things would look like. After the wedding I thought that the room was perfect for our size group. Between the buffet, bar, tables, sweetheart table and cake table the room was much fuller than I thought it would.
My planner told me it could seat 80 but that's using both areas for the reception. I never even noticed the prereception area once we finished cocktail hour.
This I a pic my planner sent me of another wedding with only 5 tables and it convinced me that the room is intimate enough for even my small group.
And about the DJ... We were party people. We love to dance and have fun. We wanted a club atmosphere and the dj created that for us. We had him for 5 hours so $1400 was a huge amount of money but well worth it.
If you want any more info or pics about the location just PM me and I'll see I I an upload a few more from the CDs or I'll link you to the gallery my photographer posted. It has like 2000+ pics and many from the reception I didn't post.