On this subject, we have been very fortunate to have wonderful table mates and the surprise of "who are we going to get?" is as fun as the cruise. Our first cruise we were seated with a family that we have stayed in touch with for several years now and probably will know them forever. On our next cruise we were seated with another family that spoke little English, but we learned a lot about them and their country. The next 2 cruises we sat with Dissers that we became best friends with from dismeets and several after we were onboard (who are on this cruise too!) And on the last cruise many of us table hopped. It was so much fun learning what everyone did during their day and getting to know new people outside of our circle of friends.
Our first table mates told me that
DCL does an expert job of matching people to "like" people (professionals, kids/no kids, ages etc.) I don't know if that is true or not, but we've been very lucky in this way.
So, for those of you who are unsure... throw it out there, meet new folks. That is the fun of the disboards. Everyone finds something they have in common with someone else somewhere onboard. The bigger the table the more options you have of rotating who you sit with. We had a table of 12 and each night we'd trade who we sat with and even traded other tables when someone was eating at Palo (remember the rotating dinner partners CruzdirectorKaren?) and we even had special treats sent to us from other tables (Seaulater!) Put it out there, try on someone new.

My friend's family always eats alone because they are embarassed by their children, but come on it's family environment, maybe their kids could learn from other kids.
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We had more fun each night seeing who was going to make it to dinner or not. Usually we knew who had plans for the next night we just rotated another couple in too. Also even though we had seating for our children very few nights did they join us. The kids did not want to come for dinner with us but wanted dinner in the kid's club.
We did have a bad experience on our very first
disney cruise with our table mates, but after speaking to our Dis friends we changed tables and boy we were happy. We were moved to table with a boy that is 3 months younger than our daughter but that didn't matter. They had a blast at together. We would barely get through the appretizer and they wanted to go to the club. They are American and live in Germany and we totally keep in touch. They had to cancel for this cruise because the husband is going to Iraq for a couple of months.
On our second half of the cruise, 11 day med cruise, we sat with all diser's and their families. Now we see them and keep in touch with them. Dinner was our highlight of the day just to see what everyone else had done for the day and see what everyone else was going to do the next day. We even had a great outing in Barcelona to a nice restaurant for lunch...
Now we have little mini meets here and there and keep in touch. It's great experience, please do not past it up!