Major Vent-and the Reason that I'm Going to Go For Custody After All

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Why thank you honeywolf - as much as I've disliked you in the past, I still hate to see you putting your kids through hell, so I certainly hope that you take advantage of the link I provided.

It took me all of about 20 seconds using an internet search to find it...
 
totally don't begrudge Bobby because of the pregnancy but I did go through an extremely rough pregnancy. Thom didn't....and that's all there is to that.
I'm getting the impression that because you had a difficult labor you feel more "entitled" to have the children than Thom?!?!?!?!? I apologize for what I'm about to say, but that is the most absurd think I have heard.
 
I may go out on a limb here, but here is what I think. Go to school! I think a technical school, something that specializes in getting you into the workforce at a decent pay rate quickly is the first step. You can always continue your education later. You are taking steps to get your license, do you have your permit yet? Can any of your friends take you out to practice driving, or even your mother? This way you don't need to wait for the driving schools, you can start with them after to further you skills. Last but not least, while Roger sounds like a nice guy, you need to stand on your own feet first before being involved with any man. If he is as understanding and kind as you say, he will wait. Take care of yourself and get your life in order first, then you will be able to take care of your children. When you empower yourself it will enable you to fight the other battles, without the bitterness and anger (not to mention the confusion) you are feeling right now. Good luck, it isn't easy.
 
Where are all of the pixie dust throwers now? Interesting that it took someone who dislikes HW (and who HW dislikes in return) to give her some real help.
 

Sorry, as a non-traditional student with kids I look at a schedule like

During winter break, I'm taking Human S*xuality (it meets from 9 AM until 2 PM every day except Sundays and New Year's Day from December 28th until January 9th)....Then during the semester, I'm taking: Statistics, Personality and Behavior of African-Americans, Sociology of Racism, Intro to Stage Performance, and World Regions.
and don't see this leading to a career that will have you supporting 2 kids. I am a physical therapy major,
Here is a sample schedule: Biology2, Chem2, Human Anatomy, Physics (this is my elective) By eliminating the fun classes, using electives to fit in with my major, not taking vacations, I can graduate much sooner. Also, by choosing a major like PT, I know I will have a job that will pay for my kids college education and help me to keep a roof over my head. It didn't have to be PT. I could have gone into nursing and considered it. This is why I know about the LPN route to nursing. Or if the science was too tough, I could have done something in education or business or computers. I am not 18 and I want a career so I had to talk very specifically with my advisor. I told him I want a degree where I know I will have work. I also planned my schedule leaving me time to work. I substitute teach, so I go to school 2 very long days and teach the other three. This leaves me the teaching day/afternoons to be home with my kids and my weekends free. As I get further along in my degree this gets more difficult. If I didn't have my dh's income I definitely would not have been able to choose this degree. Nursing would have been better.
As for LPN/nursing degree, all you need to do is walk into the local unemployment/career office for help. Or you go to the local hospital's education department.
How is intro to stage performance going to help you get your kids back? or sociology or racism?

I have a dd who is a college freshman. I shake my head when she takes a class like this, but 18yo's need to do some self-exploration.
 
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