BrerMama
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Hi friends! I am feeling the need to write, so you are lucky enough to be getting a pre-trip report, which will hopefully turn into a trip report. I am a story teller and a memory keeper and writing a trip report is my way of remembering my trip.
So we'll just start with me. I'm Kim. I turn 50 next month, I have 3 adult children, and my husband and I will have our 30th wedding anniversary in August. I teach young children with low incidence special needs, which means that I teach pre-K special education for students with severe special needs (non verbal autism, chromosomal disorders, etc). It also means that I got my world rocked a few months ago.

This is me. I'm waving at my phone, which is recording video. That's how I taught my class for 3 months. It's really hard to teach what I do via videos. I will never forget the day the Kansas governor came on TV. I was maybe thinking she'd postpone returning to school from Spring Break a couple weeks. I never dreamed she'd cancel school for the rest of the school year. Kansas was the first state to do that, and it was a shock. I sobbed loudly. It would have been embarrassing if I wasn't so heartbroken. I still miss my students so much. I am so grateful for the fact that teaching preK means I'll get 10 of them back in August. (Assuming we can return to school in August... all my fingers and toes are crossed.)
It's hard to know where in time to start this story, but let's start with March 12. I had parent-teacher conferences that day so I drove home from an 11 hour work day talking to my youngest daughter, Chesney, on the phone. She was in Orlando. We were talking about coronavirus and the news that Disneyland was shutting down (announced earlier that day). She had just gotten off work in Galaxy's Edge selling milk.

Ches had just started getting comfortable in her job, with her coworkers and her roommates... just as Disney gave her about four days notice that she had to move home. It was a crazy time. We'd spent a whole day packing for her to move in, and she had to pack it all up by herself. She shipped a 50 pound box home. And then she sat at home for two months and kept me company. She is now enrolled in college classes (online through a state university) and just started a job at a daycare. That's what she was doing before she went to Disney and she's working for a center where I started my career. It has worked out. She still would go back and work for Disney in a heart beat.
So you know the next part, right? I hadn't even eaten dinner yet when Disney announced Walt Disney World was closing, which sort of ruined our plans to fly down in less than 48 hours to visit Chesney... and do the full Disney experience. I'm pretty sure my organized, planning for every possibility mind exploded that night. It just feels super numb. I did manage to tell my husband, Dan, to see if he could get a week off in the summer. He normally has to put in his leave time on January 1. He has the most seniority, so he picks my spring break week. Then it goes to everyone else, then comes back to him. He gets 4 weeks of leave, and most of his coworkers only have 1 or 2, so we were lucky and he could get July 18-26 off. I talked to Disney on March 13 (we won't discuss how much time I've spent on hold since March 12) and was able to move our trip to the July dates. I even got free dining. I added Chesney to the trip so she could go back and see her coworkers and show us the Disney she got to know.
But here's the thing... in 2012, we took the whole family to Orlando. At that time, our oldest son had just graduated from high school. [Complete side note -- he's getting his PhD now.] We stayed at a time share for 10 or 11 nights, then moved to Royal Pacific for four nights. We did the whole Disney thing, then the whole Universal/IOA thing. And ever since, my husband has been asking to go back to Universal.

This is Dan. And his dog Jake. Dan did not want a dog, but Jake wanted him. Dan is 52 and has been able to work through this whole thing because he delivers food (Schwans). I may have been jealous of him getting to leave the house five days a week.
When we remember that 2012 trip, we mostly remember how cranky and unhappy we were the first part of the trip. It was hot, and I had planned probably too much and gotten upset when things didn't follow my plan, and, oh yeah, a tropical storm came through.

This is my middle daughter on the PeopleMover. This photo pretty much sums up a lot of our feelings about this trip. Also, she's married now and an RN in a cardiothoracic ICU.
In contrast, we loved the last part of our trip. Dan and that middle daughter are huge thrill ride people and they loved it. My son and I are huge ride wimps, but we loved that with Express Pass we never had to sit outside and wait too long. Ches did some thrill rides and skipped some. She was 12 at the time, so she just bounced between the two groups. Mostly, I loved staying at Royal Pacific. That pool is my favorite ever, and the unlimited Express Pass was what we needed after our frantic time at Disney. Dan has asked to go back every year since, but it never made sense to go, especially as our kids got older.
Then came COVID and parks having to submit plans for reopening and Disney cancelled my free dining and all my plans and broke my heart. I'm not kidding, it broke my heart and made me mad. I had no good feelings. And then Ches looked at me and said, "Mom, I don't want to go back to Disney like this. I have memories of how it was and I'm not ready to let those memories go." We all know Disney now is not the same Disney where she worked. I understood what she was trying to tell me. It was a much easier decision than I expected to call Disney and cancel our trip.
However, we still had plane tickets. We did really love Royal Pacific. Express Pass would make it easier to deal with the social distancing and new procedures. And did I mention I turn 50 in July, just days before our trip is scheduled to start?
And there is nothing I do better than pivot. If something isn't working for me, I thrive on figuring out what would work better.
That is the story of how I ended up planning a trip to Universal Resort six weeks before the trip starts. The idea that I would plan any type of big trip like this with less than six months notice is completely out of my comfort zone, but I am going to make this work. The beauty of Universal is that with Express Pass and a deluxe hotel, I don't have to plan as much. It can be a lot more "go with the flow" and a lot less spreadsheet. So here we are. Let the magic begin.
Read the next installment here.
So we'll just start with me. I'm Kim. I turn 50 next month, I have 3 adult children, and my husband and I will have our 30th wedding anniversary in August. I teach young children with low incidence special needs, which means that I teach pre-K special education for students with severe special needs (non verbal autism, chromosomal disorders, etc). It also means that I got my world rocked a few months ago.

This is me. I'm waving at my phone, which is recording video. That's how I taught my class for 3 months. It's really hard to teach what I do via videos. I will never forget the day the Kansas governor came on TV. I was maybe thinking she'd postpone returning to school from Spring Break a couple weeks. I never dreamed she'd cancel school for the rest of the school year. Kansas was the first state to do that, and it was a shock. I sobbed loudly. It would have been embarrassing if I wasn't so heartbroken. I still miss my students so much. I am so grateful for the fact that teaching preK means I'll get 10 of them back in August. (Assuming we can return to school in August... all my fingers and toes are crossed.)

Ches had just started getting comfortable in her job, with her coworkers and her roommates... just as Disney gave her about four days notice that she had to move home. It was a crazy time. We'd spent a whole day packing for her to move in, and she had to pack it all up by herself. She shipped a 50 pound box home. And then she sat at home for two months and kept me company. She is now enrolled in college classes (online through a state university) and just started a job at a daycare. That's what she was doing before she went to Disney and she's working for a center where I started my career. It has worked out. She still would go back and work for Disney in a heart beat.
But here's the thing... in 2012, we took the whole family to Orlando. At that time, our oldest son had just graduated from high school. [Complete side note -- he's getting his PhD now.] We stayed at a time share for 10 or 11 nights, then moved to Royal Pacific for four nights. We did the whole Disney thing, then the whole Universal/IOA thing. And ever since, my husband has been asking to go back to Universal.

This is Dan. And his dog Jake. Dan did not want a dog, but Jake wanted him. Dan is 52 and has been able to work through this whole thing because he delivers food (Schwans). I may have been jealous of him getting to leave the house five days a week.

This is my middle daughter on the PeopleMover. This photo pretty much sums up a lot of our feelings about this trip. Also, she's married now and an RN in a cardiothoracic ICU.
Then came COVID and parks having to submit plans for reopening and Disney cancelled my free dining and all my plans and broke my heart. I'm not kidding, it broke my heart and made me mad. I had no good feelings. And then Ches looked at me and said, "Mom, I don't want to go back to Disney like this. I have memories of how it was and I'm not ready to let those memories go." We all know Disney now is not the same Disney where she worked. I understood what she was trying to tell me. It was a much easier decision than I expected to call Disney and cancel our trip.
However, we still had plane tickets. We did really love Royal Pacific. Express Pass would make it easier to deal with the social distancing and new procedures. And did I mention I turn 50 in July, just days before our trip is scheduled to start?
And there is nothing I do better than pivot. If something isn't working for me, I thrive on figuring out what would work better.
That is the story of how I ended up planning a trip to Universal Resort six weeks before the trip starts. The idea that I would plan any type of big trip like this with less than six months notice is completely out of my comfort zone, but I am going to make this work. The beauty of Universal is that with Express Pass and a deluxe hotel, I don't have to plan as much. It can be a lot more "go with the flow" and a lot less spreadsheet. So here we are. Let the magic begin.
Read the next installment here.
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