High shipping makes me cancel orders all the time. Comapnies are shooting themselves in the foot. Have you checked retailmenot.com to see if you can find a code for free shipping or something?
I love this site! I just saved 10% on a Kohls order..plus ordered during their morning sale and also got 50% off the items for another sale. They did have bigger discounts offered, but those were using your Kohls card, which I do not have. Oh..one thing..they advertised the 10 for every 50 you spend, but it has to be used in a WEEK at a STORE not online. My closest Kohls is over an hour away :/