Been doing both parks since we started going to Orlando regularly in 2000. Love both. Different vibes, and have always done Disney more often than Universal. We've been getting Disney APs since buying DVC in 2011. Usually work in 2-3 Disney trips in a year, then take off a year to 18 months, and often did Universal or beach during the 'off' times.
Not having ANY access to APs is totally affecting everything we do as for planning Disney trips now. Never imagined in our wildest worst-case scenarios that Disney would not sell APs at all (except to FL residents.)
Our original June trip changed from all of us going, to just 2 of us (plus DD's friend,) going for DD's graduation trip. Likewise, we're going in Oct, and so far only DH has tickets. Since I went in June, I may not buy any Disney tickets, and only get like 2-3 days for DS. we have absolutely no intention of buying day tickets on a regular basis in the coming years. If Disney doesn't offer APs, we'll look at skipping Disney, renting out our DVC points, or trading them for other locations.
We bought Universal APs last Oct, and have LOVED, LOVED our trips to Universal. went to
HHN for the first time last year, and totally hooked. Our Oct trip this year will be using 2 days at Universal, APs expire during the trip, and 1 night HHN. Universal has a LOT to offer, great resorts, great new rides, just a lot of fun. It's not the vibe of Disney, and only 2 parks compared to 4, but it's a destination for us for sure.
we're still hoping Disney APs might be offered before October, but not holding our breath.