After a little stroll around the grounds and a stop at Basin to pick up an item or two, I'm back in the room for a moment. It's getting hot outside, and I may let the heat pass a little bit before venturing back out. Last year, a whole one year into having Disney experiences, I didn't quite understand people who would do a trip to Disney and not go to the parks. It seemed like buying a BLT sandwich, but getting it without bacon. Absurd! Scandalous! Wasteful!
This year, an entire two years after the start of my Disney experience, I think I understand now. It's like buying a BLT sandwich and leaving out the tomato. I do that all the time (tomatoes, yuck). There's a certain amount of stress that just disappears when the parks aren't the focus. I do enjoy going to them quite a bit, and don't know if I'd ever do a Disney trip and not hit up at least Magic Kingdom and Epcot, but there's a certain pleasure that comes with being able to take in the rest of the Disney touches that exist in everything else that's not directly at the parks. I'm now on my seventh Disney Resort. Each of the resorts I've stayed at has had their own kind of Disney charm. The service, across the board, has been excellent. Some resorts feel a little more complete in the overall experience, but they seem to cater to different mindsets. Maybe I'm reading into things and applying my own biases, which is absolutely a very viable possibility, but the values seem to push your plans more towards being at the parks, while the deluxe resorts and some of the moderates seem more accommodating to broader plans. When I stayed at All-Star Movies and All-Star Sports, I wanted to fill my time more with being at the parks for a good amount of time in the day. The rooms were basic and the things available to do at the resort were limited to food court and pool. My time at POR seemed more relaxed, even though it took place before trying out the values. The room was much nicer, and the grounds seemed set up to allow for time off from the parks. I did some very nice walks around the different areas of POR and was more apt to explore the pathways. Having a boat ride to Disney Springs was icing on the cake. At the Deluxes that I've stayed at so far (GF, Poly, and to a lesser extent AKL) it's been far easier to justify just enjoying the entire experience, rather than hitting the parks hard every day. The monorail resorts, in particular, remove so much of the stress of feeling like I need to be at the parks. Perhaps because it's just a quick ride to MK and I'm back into the action, rather than having to wait on the right bus to show up and to hope there's not a gob of people crammed into those buses. It feels less like a chore to enjoy the parks when at the monorail resorts, and I have a feeling that the Epcot resorts have a similar feel. Being in the thick of it takes away the stress of feeling like I need to be at the parks to get the most value out of my trip.
I think there's another part to this equation that some people have to factor in that I don't: kids. I don't have kids. I'm a few fingers away from 40 and feel that I would like to keep things that way. All of my Disney plans have been to cater to my needs, save for the few times when I've gone with friends. Nothing I do has to be concrete. Most of my trips have involved multiple plan changes through each stage of the trip, including departure days. I'm not sure that kind of freedom exists when the trip is planned around the wishes of children. Is there resort only days when you have kids with Disney in their eyes? I've read tons and tons of trip reports on this site and there always seems to be a small amount of stress built into them when it comes to the pre-trip planning and getting the absolute most out of every day and every park so that their kids can experience everything. That's incredibly commendable and my hats go off to the parents who are able to pull it off without losing their minds by the end. That's a tough thing to do. I watch kids lose their s**t more often than I can count and sympathise for the parents who have to handle them. How do you not become disheartened when what should be a dream trip for a kid instead becomes a constant series of events of trying to deal with a miserable child. There's a couple with two kids here at the GF who I've seen every day since I checked in. My heart immediately goes out to them. They have a boy who may be one or two and a girl who looks to be about three or four. I'm terrible at judging kids ages, by the way. The boy is at wobbly walking age and the girl looks like she might be starting school for the first time soon. Anyway, every time I've seen them, both at the resort and randomly at the parks, the boy is doing that kind of cry where it's misery plus intentionally trying to make everyone else miserable too, and the girl is pouting. I can only imagine the amount of money and planning went into their trip, and I imagine that this is probably supposed to be a special trip for the kids, maybe the trip before the girl starts school, and the boy's first Disney trip ever, but you'd never know it by the kids. There's been a steadily defeated look on the parents faces as each day has passed, and it would not surprise me if they were looking forward to the end of the trip and going back home. I hope hope hope and hope some more that there's real Disney magic building up to turn this trip around for the parents and also hope I've had the misfortune of only catching them during times of hunger of naps. Would it be good or bad form to buy them a bottle of some kind of nice alcohol as a "things look like they could be going a little better and I hope this bottle gives you a little Disney magic" type of offering? I just feel like maybe I should do something. Or maybe I should but out and stop assuming the worst.
Well, that was a bit of a verbose journey, wasn't it? I think that's the long way of saying I'm not doing anything for at least two or three hours except enjoying Grand Floridian and digesting food.
More updates in a bit while I attempt to make some plans.