I just wanted to say I will keep you and your family in my thoughts. My dad was diagnosed with stage 3 lung cancer 6 years ago. He has had it return twice in other locations (brain and adrenal gland) but has been cancer free for 4 years now. Stage 3 was a scary diagnosis, but there is so much more they are able to do these days it is far more treatable than 10 years ago. Taking some time for yourself is important, but I think adjusting your goals so they still feel attainable despite your increased demands this month is a smart choice. Focus on making healthy choices and go easy on yourself if you falter! I hope everything goes well for him!
SO glad your Dad is doing well.... and that is what I LOVE about this group... we can support each other in SO MANY WAYS other than just weight loss!
I do a meal plan every Sunday night, so my dinners get planned then. Lunches and breakfast are almost always the same, unless I have leftovers to make use of. Breakfast is always one egg and one egg white, a piece of ezekiel bread and half a grapefruit. Lunch is usually salad with 3-4 servings of veggies, beans, lean protein and homemade vinaigrettes. Or I have a half a sandwich or whole wheat wrap and fruit. I like that these two meals are sort of automatic, and I can count on the consistency of them. As bored as I get with dinners, for some reason I do not get bored with lunches and breakfasts. Snacks are greek yogurt (plain) with fruit on the side, a few cheese slices with triscuits, cheese sticks, or hummus and veggies.
Mondays, I start the new week strong by doing a strength class where I go to physical therapy, then I immediately (yes sweaty and gross) do my food shopping. After that I prep fruits and veggies to make sure they are easy to use the rest of the week. My workouts are based on my training plan for whatever races are on my calendar. Right now I am only sure of one race, and it is not until October, so I am just following a basic base building plan. I run 3-4 days a week and cross train 2-3. I strength train with heavy weights at least twice a week. And I have some PT exercises I am supposed to do daily, but I'll be honest and say I do them only some of the time. At the end of this month, I will begin a new training cycle which will be different in that I am going to have a local running coach construct a specific training plan for me, as I will be training for a new distance. I am going to be doing my first full marathon in the fall.

Super excited, but also terrified!
When I was most successful with weight loss in the past, it was always about an automaticity to my plan. So, I am trying to return to that mode.
As for a daily challenge, I am going to focus on water. It used to be something easy and automatic for me. Now I realize I no longer drink enough water. I don't drink soda, only water and a few cups of coffee each day (+ wine on weekends) but I have not been drinking enough water lately. So I am going to focus on getting back to 64 ounces a day. I've had about 20 ounces so far today
I was super busy and did not get on here this weekend, so I missed the food challenge. It is a bummer too because I made my favorite weekend breakfast of a healthy frittata. Its heavy on veggies, light on cheese and I use a mix of whole eggs and egg white to keep it lighter. I'll try and post it next weekend. Never enough time during the week.
As an aside, venting, I really hate my city's administration and mother nature right now. We are getting our second snowstorm in 48 hours, and it is a mess. Kids are in school, which was a horrible call in my opinion. I transport my kids myself, so I know I can keep them safe, were have an easy and short (under a mile) ride. But my city is crazy hilly and the city has done NOTHING to clean it up. Dismissal time is going to be a nightmare for the buses. Going to keep snowing through the afternoon. UGH! Vent over