Whole life coverage is going to be more expensive then the term coverage because of the cash option associated with whole life. I don't think $200/month is all that out of line for a 36 year old male for whole life. Also, if it is a 20 year term, does that mean the policy will be paid up after 20 years, meaning that you pay the premium for 20 years and then you are done paying but the coverage is still there?There are just too many variables with the premium to say if you are paying too much or not. The only way to really know that is to look at the dec pages to see what the policy entails, what it is for exactly, etc. If you want to PM me the exact coverages I would be happy to look at them and let you know.