ckay87
demented and sad...but social
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I don't understand how its the school's fault if parents send their kids there. Its a private school and they have the right to set their rules as they please. Maybe the parents are pushing their kids to go there, or say they will only pay for them to go there. But in the end, these "kids" are adults and can go to whatever college they please. They wouldn't be the first student that had to pay their own way through school. If they decide to go to LU b/c their parents pushed them to that is not the school's problem, and I don't see where the school should have to change their rules b/c of this. A large majority of the students at Liberty are there because they WANT to be, and they love it. If you've ever sat in on one of their convocations or been to a fottball game or something they have just as much pride in their school as students who go elsewhere. So if the kids that chose to go there are okay with the rules I don't see why people have to be so judgemental about it. They are not hurting anybody.
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They are not isolated from the real world. Who says the real world has to consist of R rated movies and drunken parties? What is it that everyone thinks they are missing out on that is so important?
And they are not all as "isolated" as you think. I partied with plenty of LU students as well as other locals and students from the other surrounding colleges. I never got written up for anything the entire time I was there other than a parking ticket. I did get called into the dean's office once because a security officer that I was arguing over a ticket with saw my tongue ring. I took it out before I went in and she just said I couldn't wear it on campus.
I went to LU b/c it was free. I didn't really want to go to college at all, at least not right then. So I went pretty much to class and that was it. But I watched the other students around me all the time, and the vast majority of them were happy to be there. They loved the school the environment and were more than happy to follow the rules. And everyone I know has gone on to be successful at whatever they worked towards.
Well, it is nobody's "fault" and of course they have the "right" to make their own rules. You are losing sight of what this thread was about. The OP asked for opinions and she's getting them.
Personally, the last thing I want for my kids when they go to college is for them to be isolated and restricted. The world is filled with bad things....far worse things than R rated movies. And as adults they'd better be prepared to navigate that world while staying true to their beliefs. Just my opinion.