okay, so the question was is the sexual preference the only difference between homosexuals and heterosexuals. i said yes. i am not aware of any other differences.
i think people say that it is more about love than sex, that is what people mean. Suggesting the reason i date women is only because I like sex is like saying a straight man chose his wife because he was choosing the optimal sexual partner.
I think that saying the difference between homosexuals and heterosexuals is a difference their attraction preferences, not just sexual preferences. it not only sounds nicer, but is probly more accurate.
Just to confuse things, more and more of us out there refuse to accept labels, either. I date women, I have dated men, I will probly never date men again, but I do not call myself a lesbian. I date who I am attracted to, so when I fight for things like marriage rights, I don't call it "gay marriage" I call it "marriage equality."
I am going to marry my current gf (just got a ring!), and i am going to wear my ring to work and have a picture on my desk and when she is pregnant (which is our current plan) I am going to have pictures of the baby when it is born... I am going to live a perfectly normal life, raise kids, take out the trash, argue about who does dishes, and fight over control of the remote. I don't see what the big deal is??
I do not "flaunt" anything, but I do hold hands with my gf when we are in public. I held hands with my bf's as well... I guess there is just no pleasing some people. I also get yelled at for being too young to use a cane or wheelchair, and to get out of the disabled parking spots. So i guess there are rude, stupid, insensitive, or ignorant people out there no matter what minority (or two) you fit in to.
People should just live their lives in whatever manner they deem best and leave me to live mine!