Could it be the type and quality of the clothing you are buying?
Cheaper clothing, and all-cotton clothing WILL shrink. You have to take that into consideration when you are buying. When buying that tiny sized clothing, a little shrinkage can go a long way. And kids grow FAST!
You really need to wash a kids clothes in at least a very warm water to get out all the germs and grime. I would still use a detergent for sensitive skin. Sensitivities or not, who needs the extra chemicals?
I really swear by Tide products... Expensive.. Yes... Worth it to me... YES.
We use the TIDE sensitive HE for front loaders.
White jug with baby blue cap.
PS: Are you using a top loader?
When we changed to a good front loader (I have the LG now) I literally found I did not need to be using the spray stain removers. Only on real stains.... When used correctly, with a little extra effort... a front loader gets my laundry much cleaner than a top loader, which just kind of swishes the laundry around in gallons of water.
Another note, for anyone who uses front-loaders. I would never run a load of laundry in mine without running an extra rinse after the cycle is complete. That is when I use fabric softener. They way they work and are designed... They just do not use enough water to rinse well enough for me. And, then they add the fabric softener after just one initial rinse... leaves a LOT of detergent and softener residue.
I can run a quick wash w/extra rinse extra rinse on my LG, and then run a rinse cycle again with the fabric softener, and have a load of laundry washed in 40 min.
