We were there the evening of May 4th, and it was horrible there. Our plan is usually we go to a park right when it opens, that day May 4th, the kids wanted to go to Epcot. We did Epcot for 5 hrs, and no lines for anything. We went back to the condo for a swim. My daughter(Who is 4)wanted to head back to the Magic Kingdom, she loved "Carosal of progress"(go figure with all the rides, she loved that), my husband and son headed to othere end. Me and daughter headed to Tunetoon for pictures with characters, but then my husband and son were done. We were "Trying" to leave the park then, it was close to 8:30, and it was completely mobbed.. We hardly ever stay for parades at the evening, as I Hate the crowds. I love Disney, but could do with out the parade crowds. The Disney people let the crowd of people not staying for the parade, a back route out, BUT, it got congested right in front of that first restaurant on Mainstreet(Dont know the name of it). I was a little pissed as were the rest of the crowd trying to get out, but it seems people decided to stop and watch the parade... All we wanted to do was get out of there and avoid crowd people... It didnt work..
I dont know if the parade was the reason it was so crowded, but I wont make that mistake again, we will leave before parade starts.
We still had a Magical week at Diseny, despite that one flaw.