Jon and Kate Plus 8 Official Thread - Part 5

[redrosesix]

I disagree that divorce means being a part-time parent. No, divorced parents don't get to see their kids everyday. But divorced parents who are really committed to their kids still show up on non-costodial days to drive soccer car pools, haul to doctor and dentist appts., watch school plays and ballgames or attend parent conferences. These are divorced parents who are trying to make the best of a bad situation. Some divorced parents (the impression I'm getting from Jon) is that when he isn't "on-duty" his life is his own. I work with a lady like this. In fact, I'm sure it was the real she finally decided to divorce. Some people are too selfish for the 24/7 requirement.

I also disagree that having a nanny makes either Jon or Kate part-time parents, with 8 kids even when the nanny is there, there is plenty of work to go around. I'm sure there have been two skinned knees at once or two kids that needed correction or re-direction. With 8 kids and no spouse, I would imagine a nanny only saves your sanity not allows you time to sit on your butt.

Well, it's great when it can work well between the parents so that both can attend important things with the kids -- I know of a lot of families where they have to take turns attending school concerts, holidays, etc. The parents can't be in the same room as each other, and the kids miss things like weddings and family reunions if they fall on the wrong days.

And I think it's really premature to say how either Jon or Kate are going to work things out so soon -- yes, Jon got an apartment in NYC but he just moved in. Who's to say that will last? Or whether Kate would be there if something happened, but Jon wouldn't. Even if they were secretly separated for a long time, they've only been taking turns away from the kids for about a month. I just think it's too soon to tell, especially with not knowing how Jon's exploits are going to play out -- maybe she isn't as surprised as we are about Hailey -- maybe she's madder than we could ever imagine.

As for the part-time/full-time parent comment, I just want to clarify that I was only speaking about the time requirements, and the need for both parents to be available at all times. And I want to add that even though they have lots of money, I wouldn't hold it against either of them if they felt they had to get a real job -- some people need to work. It would be a great example to set for their kids, since I'm sure there's no way that all 8 of them can have their own reality TV show when they grow up.

 

[redrosesix]

sounds like there was a little ruckus today ...
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20292155,00.html

I find it interesting that Kate and the kids were there for a TLC promo, and Jon wasn't (even though it was in NYC) Seems like either TLC dropped him (I can see his exploits being a contract breaker) or he chose to not be there. Either way, if we see more like this, I'd bet the show gets renamed Kate + Eight. I think this NYC trip might be a big deal (or not)

Hmmm, I dunno, I kind of think that we'll hear all the details from HAILEY when Jon drops her for his next young thing, and she'll probably make millions $$$ doing it!

Yes, I hadn't considered that. Hailey's probably got the inside scoop, and I don't doubt that she would be the type to kiss and tell.

 

[floridafam]

Anyone know where this top is from?
http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/kate-gosselin-brood-hit-new-york-city-0

It reminds me of something I had a few years ago that I'd like to order if it's available somewhere.

Thanks.

 

[AlleyKat]

Anyone know where this top is from?
http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/kate-gosselin-brood-hit-new-york-city-0

Most likely Ann Taylor's Loft as it seems to be Kates favorite place to shop.

Kate has great, refined taste in clothes and always looks good!

 

[redrosesix]

Anyone know where this top is from?
http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/kate-gosselin-brood-hit-new-york-city-0

It reminds me of something I had a few years ago that I'd like to order if it's available somewhere.

Thanks.

oooh -- nice shirt.

When I went to the link, I also clicked on the photos of Jon's new apartment building -- could it be any more different than their house.

And here it says he leased the apartment -- but in other reports it says he bought the place.

 

[GeorgiaPeach8]

And I want to add that even though they have lots of money, I wouldn't hold it against either of them if they felt they had to get a real job -- some people need to work. It would be a great example to set for their kids, since I'm sure there's no way that all 8 of them can have their own reality TV show when they grow up.

ITA...I'm not cut out to be a SAHM. Every summer proves that to me. However, If I had a couple of million dollars and eight kids, I'm sure I wouldn't go back to teaching high school. Can you imagine the snippy comments her co-workers would make if she started nursing again. I think at this point they are beyond the "real" job world.

 

[DMRick]

Well, it's great when it can work well between the parents so that both can attend important things with the kids -- I know of a lot of families where they have to take turns attending school concerts, holidays, etc. The parents can't be in the same room as each other, and the kids miss things like weddings and family reunions if they fall on the wrong days.

And I think it's really premature to say how either Jon or Kate are going to work things out so soon -- yes, Jon got an apartment in NYC but he just moved in. Who's to say that will last? Or whether Kate would be there if something happened, but Jon wouldn't.

I think that is a shame when parents vcan't think of what is best for the kids. I can only speak of people I know who are divorced, and in those instances, both parents go to as many events as they can. They don't sit together, but they try to attend, as do their extended families. I'm sure the reason for the divorce will determine that, at least in the begining.
It may be premature to say how J & K will work things out in the future, but I think most of us are commenting on the here and now..at least I am, and I think he was foolish to move so far away, when it has to be still raw for the kids, no matter how long he and Kate have known. And I think it's foolish for him to be so public about how he's handling it (very well, it appears).

 

[mistydoodles]

Has Jon moved on to yet another young thing..... http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/jon-gosselins-nyc-dinner-mystery-date

 

[Disneynut5]

http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/jon-gosselins-nyc-dinner-mystery-date

Jon out with woman number 3. He is getting around! Scum bag!


My question is how can Jon or Kate put on their nice clothes or enjoy their nice things knowing that on their own they could not afford those things. Neither of them are employeed! The ONLY reason that they have those thing items is because they have 8 cute kids that they put on TV. They did not earn anything they have. I could not live with myself knowing that my kids earned the money for the family. TLC should not allow this. I do not believe that any other TLC family makes a living solely from their reality show. Am I wrong here?

 

[mistydoodles]

There is a new article on People. I'm not sure if it has already been posted or not. It is about the P people and Kate's security people. http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20292155,00.html

 

[mistydoodles]

http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/jon-gosselins-nyc-dinner-mystery-date

Jon out with woman number 3. He is getting around! Scum bag!


My question is how can Jon or Kate put on their nice clothes or enjoy their nice things knowing that on their own they could not afford those things. Neither of them are employeed! The ONLY reason that they have those thing items is because they have 8 cute kids that they put on TV. They did not earn anything they have. I could not live with myself knowing that my kids earned the money for the family. TLC should not allow this. I do not believe that any other TLC family makes a living solely from their reality show. Am I wrong here?

I feel the same way. It really bothers me how much Jon's apartment in NYC is going to cost. He isn't paying for this with money that he is earning on his own. It is money that his kids got for him. Same thing for all the new cars both Jon and Kate are purchasing. These are not items that they could be buying if it weren't for the kids. It really does bother me.

 

[WaltD4Me]

Has Jon moved on to yet another young thing..... http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/jon-gosselins-nyc-dinner-mystery-date

Wow. Seriously though, that could be anybody, a producer from TLC, a publicist, a realtive, but still...more pictures of Bachelor Jon with another woman.

 

[MichelleVW]

http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/jon-gosselins-nyc-dinner-mystery-date

Jon out with woman number 3. He is getting around! Scum bag!

what a loser...

 

[DreaGirl]

sounds like there was a little ruckus today ...
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20292155,00.html

The show must go on I see.

Has Jon moved on to yet another young thing..... http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/jon-gosselins-nyc-dinner-mystery-date

http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/jon-gosselins-nyc-dinner-mystery-date

Jon out with woman number 3. He is getting around! Scum bag!


My question is how can Jon or Kate put on their nice clothes or enjoy their nice things knowing that on their own they could not afford those things. Neither of them are employeed! The ONLY reason that they have those thing items is because they have 8 cute kids that they put on TV. They did not earn anything they have. I could not live with myself knowing that my kids earned the money for the family. TLC should not allow this. I do not believe that any other TLC family makes a living solely from their reality show. Am I wrong here?

TLC does not care as long as the ratings stay high and the money comes rolling in. In fact they probably loved it when Jon quit his job because then they could work any day that they chose (weekday or weekend). No more restrictions.

I feel the same way. It really bothers me how much Jon's apartment in NYC is going to cost. He isn't paying for this with money that he is earning on his own. It is money that his kids got for him. Same thing for all the new cars both Jon and Kate are purchasing. These are not items that they could be buying if it weren't for the kids. It really does bother me.

And the new house that was purchased, the Utah condo, the spa trips, the vacations, the appliances, the list goes on and on...

 

[mistydoodles]

Wow. Seriously though, that could be anybody, a producer from TLC, a publicist, a realtive, but still...more pictures of Bachelor Jon with another woman.

That is true. Hopefully that is the case because this is getting pretty disgusting if it isn't.

 

[Promomx2]

But you would have thought that after all the media Jon got from his last trip, he would have told the paps who the blonde was, if she was from TLC or whatever. Or maybe it's Jon's new move since Kate's bringing back the bodyguard.

 

[Disneynut5]

Plus - they are dressed for a date, not a business meeting. He is loving this attention - you can tell!

 

[mrsksomeday]

Wow he thinks he is something posing with this woman and also posing for pictures with Hailey in St. Tropez. What an idiot.

 

[WaltD4Me]

Plus - they are dressed for a date, not a business meeting. He is loving this attention - you can tell!

I did read somewhere that Hailey was upset about all the negative stories that were coming out about her, maybe she dumped Jon already and the blonde is a date. Hailey doesn't seem to around since they got back from France.

 

[DreaGirl]

I guess the woman is a senior editor with Star Magazine, so not a date date but a publicity/interview date.

http://www.radaronline.com/exclusiv...ry-date-identifiedexclusive-jon-gosselin-kate