Jon and Kate Plus 8 Official Thread - Part 5

[redrosesix]

But on his non-custodial days, he isn't supposed to be doing those things. Unfortunately, that's how divorce works. If a kid needs to be picked up, taken to a game, taken to the dentist, it's the parent who has custody that day who is supposed to go.

I can't remember who said this- but I have to disagree. There are EIGHT children in this situation. Eight children close in age- it's very possible 2 are sick at the same time- very possible one parent is at the dentist with one and the school calls because someone has thrown up. If Jon were in close proximity- he could be there when his kids needed him and not just when it's his turn. School plays- assemblies- trips to the ER- chaperoning class trips- it goes on and on. By moving his second residence to NYC, Jon has made himself a part time parent, and his children will resent his "new life" in the future.





Let's hope not.



I think they were real for Kate. I think she was trying very hard. Just because they were having issues, doesn't mean the renewal was a sham. Maybe it was to Jon- but to her it was real.




I believe I read she got a place right in town. As a mother I know I could NEVER live as far away from my young children as Jon has chosen to do part time.

It was me who posted that comment first. As for being a part-time dad, that is what divorce means: each parent is a part-time single parent. But I would consider them part-time parents in any case -- they do have a nanny.

Kate may have an apartment closer to the home, but she would still be doing public speaking engagements and book tours if they didn't get cancelled. I just find it interesting that you bash Jon for getting an apartment 2.5 hours away, but aren't criticizing Kate for attending a conference in California.

 

[DMRick]

One thing I find interesting, is that some of us watch the show, some of us don't because we don't support it for various reasons, that we don't like how Kate treats Jon, or acts, or we think the kids are exploited. However, here we are, keeping the show alive, watching you tube, reading all the articles, looking at the pictures, discussing every nuance. Everyone on this thread is playing right into TLC's hands. I know some say they don't watch it so they aren't a part of K & J making all this money off their kids backs, but IMO, we all are. Because TLC see's the hits on the you tubes, google's and gets this thread and many others, notices how many pics the rag mags have out there (and why would they if the mags weren't selling with those covers), they are probably thrilled! All of us here, including those who want the show to be stopped, are a large part of why it continues,

I don't know about the rest of you, but if I object to a show's content or a certain actor/famous person, I stop watching and ignore all the hype about it. That is my protest. But with this show, like no other I can remember, people are hooked! We may feel that if we don't watch, we are showing we disapprove, but I don't think that is the case at all, as long as we post and watch the news on this.

TLC has got to be thrilled..even those who 'intensely dislike' the show, or Kate or Jon, are still on board. Am I the only one who see's the irony in this? We all keep the show alive.

 

[Hollywoodhaha]

Bye guys. I'm off on vacation have a great couple of days

Have fun !


Erhm .. I don't believe the engagement because Jon just got divorced and he is "rather excited about it" and wants to enjoy it.

 

[DMRick]

But I would consider them part-time parents in any case -- they do have a nanny.

Kate may have an apartment closer to the home, but she would still be doing public speaking engagements and book tours if they didn't get cancelled. I just find it interesting that you bash Jon for getting an apartment 2.5 hours away, but aren't criticizing Kate for attending a conference in California.

You consider people who have a nanny part time parents? Do you also consider people who work and use daycare part time parents? How about if grandma comes in to help, or lives with the family? I so do not agree with this. If I had the means, I would have loved to have a live in nanny, and I only had 3 kids.

I have no problem with Jon going on vacation, or Kate attending a conference. Even parents together are sometimes away. I just don't see that the same as a parent moving away from the town where their children ilive if it's not necessary. Many people have mile limits as to how far they can move their children from a spouse, yet, Jon could choose to live closer and didn't.

 

[AlleyKat]

Jon just got divorced

Jon and Kate are physically separated and most likely won't be legally divorced for quite some time.

 

[AlleyKat]

I have no problem with Jon going on vacation, or Kate attending a conference.

Jon could choose to live closer and didn't.

Something funky about that move!

 

[mistydoodles]

Kate left her home on Friday to help Jon take the kids to the doctors. http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/jon-and-kate-take-their-eight-doctor

I don't know if Jon would do the same thing while living in NYC.

 

[Hollywoodhaha]

Jon and Kate are physically separated and most likely won't be legally divorced for quite some time.

Doesn't change the point.

 

[kidshop]

One thing I find interesting, is that some of us watch the show, some of us don't because we don't support it for various reasons, that we don't like how Kate treats Jon, or acts, or we think the kids are exploited. However, here we are, keeping the show alive, watching you tube, reading all the articles, looking at the pictures, discussing every nuance. Everyone on this thread is playing right into TLC's hands. I know some say they don't watch it so they aren't a part of K & J making all this money off their kids backs, but IMO, we all are. Because TLC see's the hits on the you tubes, google's and gets this thread and many others, notices how many pics the rag mags have out there (and why would they if the mags weren't selling with those covers), they are probably thrilled! All of us here, including those who want the show to be stopped, are a large part of why it continues,

I don't know about the rest of you, but if I object to a show's content or a certain actor/famous person, I stop watching and ignore all the hype about it. That is my protest. But with this show, like no other I can remember, people are hooked! We may feel that if we don't watch, we are showing we disapprove, but I don't think that is the case at all, as long as we post and watch the news on this.

TLC has got to be thrilled..even those who 'intensely dislike' the show, or Kate or Jon, are still on board. Am I the only one who see's the irony in this? We all keep the show alive.

Some of us have written to the network and the sponsors expressing concern for the children in this mess. Perhaps that cancels out the posting on the board. Keeping quiet and turning the other way isn't going to help the kids. The kids are what is important, and as soon as the Plus 8 part of the show ends and they are no longer used to make money in ads or books etc, and are given their privacy to grow up in peace (they may have to go in their back yard occasionally) I will never comment again about Jon or Kate.

 

[Promomx2]

I didn't see the 3 girls going to the doctor. Did they go also? And I definitely don't like Kate's new hat. It looks like a guys hat.

 

[mikki'smom]

One thing I find interesting, is that some of us watch the show, some of us don't because we don't support it for various reasons, that we don't like how Kate treats Jon, or acts, or we think the kids are exploited. However, here we are, keeping the show alive, watching you tube, reading all the articles, looking at the pictures, discussing every nuance. Everyone on this thread is playing right into TLC's hands. I know some say they don't watch it so they aren't a part of K & J making all this money off their kids backs, but IMO, we all are. Because TLC see's the hits on the you tubes, google's and gets this thread and many others, notices how many pics the rag mags have out there (and why would they if the mags weren't selling with those covers), they are probably thrilled! All of us here, including those who want the show to be stopped, are a large part of why it continues,

I don't know about the rest of you, but if I object to a show's content or a certain actor/famous person, I stop watching and ignore all the hype about it. That is my protest. But with this show, like no other I can remember, people are hooked! We may feel that if we don't watch, we are showing we disapprove, but I don't think that is the case at all, as long as we post and watch the news on this.

TLC has got to be thrilled..even those who 'intensely dislike' the show, or Kate or Jon, are still on board. Am I the only one who see's the irony in this? We all keep the show alive.

I've been thinking alot about this lately. I think that with J&K, reality TV just took on a whole new life. It's almost like a virus that has mutated itself and moved on. TLC started out to show us the "everyday" life of a family with two sets of multiples. But....when the cameras quit rolling the same could not be said for the family. There are too many other ways to indulge our voyeurism today. We've all been peeking through the lends of the p-people for months and then coming here to get our facts from the likes of "Radaronline" and "Justjared". Then, we trash them for being human and flawed and inconsistent in how they are living their lives. We have all been sucked in, and unless we turn off all electronics and go for a very long walk in the woods, this thing is never going to go away.

 

[Maggimus]

I agree with you DMRick-- those that feed this thread (with like or dislike of the show) are only giving the fuel that this fire needs to continue burning. If you dislike the show.... how about helping to put the fire out by walking away. Otherwise, TLC has all the reason to continue the show. Any publicity is good publicity-- and the more you talk about it here, with co-workers, or friends, the more people are going to tune in to see whats going on in their lives next. There wouldnt be a show, and such a following of the paparazzi photos if there wasn't a great interest. And..... threads like this prove there is such a thing alive and thriving.

For example--- Kate has been wearing a hat so much lately. If I didn't care, I wouldn't comment about it. LOL. Not that thats the only thing in the world I care about-- but I noticed it- and thats enough. Just like some of you noticed Jon's stomach in the photo a week or two ago. Or notice Jon's earrings...lol. People who honestly and genuinly don't care wouldn't notice, or give a hoot.

About the kids-- I swear, it kills me to read "we care about the kids thats why"-- I dont think anyone has ill intention toward the kids. We ALL care. But I can bet that those kids have enough people watching out for their well being.... that it wouldn't hurt to walk away from the feeding frenzy if it all bothered you that much.

Now... carry on with the gossip.... since that is what im here for (oh, and the paparazzi photos)....

 

[Buckalew11]

Wow those comments under the pictures are just brutal and a show of stupidity. I gotta make a note to self not to read those anymore!

I think it is good they both did the doctor visit together. I'm happy to see this.

 

[madge]

I believe I read she got a place right in town. As a mother I know I could NEVER live as far away from my young children as Jon has chosen to do part time.

I've read a couple of places -- neither of which were in town, one "report" said Kate was living 30 minutes away and another said she was living in Maryland, close to the bodyguard (because they weren't having an affair, and Kate was still close to him and his wife). None of the places I read about are as far from the children as Jon living in NYC.

I wasn't sure if it had actually been confirmed where Kate's living. I'm sure it will be soon, LOL

 

[Hollywoodhaha]

I've read a couple of places -- neither of which were in town, one "report" said Kate was living 30 minutes away and another said she was living in Maryland, close to the bodyguard (because they weren't having an affair, and Kate was still close to him and his wife). None of the places I read about are as far from the children as Jon living in NYC.

I wasn't sure if it had actually been confirmed where Kate's living. I'm sure it will be soon, LOL

I believe that. She couldn't stay away that long.

 

[DMRick]

I think as long as TLC see's interest in this show (and you are showing interest) it will air. That's what makes the amount the sponsors pay decided..interest in the show. If you are writing them saying you don't like the show, but are still showing interest (not you per say, but the masses) by looking at the pictures and the boards, and posting about it, it will continue. So, IMO, I think if you (you anyone, not you per se) really want the show to end, it's time to ignore it. And most are not ready for that, because again, it's like that train wreck..we want to be there at the end. I actually enjoy the actual show, I don't believe the kids are being exploited (I'll be the first to say I am wrong, if the kids write books about how they were exploited) and I will still watch it.

Of course, once they end the show people will stop talking about it..I mean, let's face it, there will be nothing to talk about LOL! As long as we still talk about it, TLC will get sponsors. Bad press is no better than no press at all.

Some of us have written to the network and the sponsors expressing concern for the children in this mess. Perhaps that cancels out the posting on the board. Keeping quiet and turning the other way isn't going to help the kids. The kids are what is important, and as soon as the Plus 8 part of the show ends and they are no longer used to make money in ads or books etc, and are given their privacy to grow up in peace (they may have to go in their back yard occasionally) I will never comment again about Jon or Kate.

 

[DMRick]

About the kids-- I swear, it kills me to read "we care about the kids thats why"-- I dont think anyone has ill intention toward the kids. We ALL care. But I can bet that those kids have enough people watching out for their well being.... that it wouldn't hurt to walk away from the feeding frenzy if it all bothered you that much.

Now... carry on with the gossip.... since that is what im here for (oh, and the paparazzi photos)....

I agree with you too LOL!

 

[talulabelle]

Did anyone notice in this pic, that he is picking up "Juicy Juice boxes at UPS. Guess they are still getting that free for plugging it constantly a while back. (even though it isn't "organic")

http://www.radaronline.com/photos/image/12474

 

[madge]

this reads like high school drama, I swear .. LOL

http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2009/07/kate’s-revenge-bodyguard-coming-back

 

[mistydoodles]

Kate and the kids are in NYC

http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20292151,00.html