starann
In having children, I have lost my mind, but found
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"Lets handle this constructivly" Kate says
To me it doesn't sound like 2 people who are working on their marraige. I am the last one to judge someone's marraige (as hubby and I have seen a counsler before) but I'm not hearing "we will get through this, we will be stronger becuase of it, it's hard now and we both have a lot of issues we are dealing with, but we will get through it" And that is sad. They worked so hard to make their family (infertility treatments, financial issues) to let it go down the drain....very sad.
To me it doesn't sound like 2 people who are working on their marraige. I am the last one to judge someone's marraige (as hubby and I have seen a counsler before) but I'm not hearing "we will get through this, we will be stronger becuase of it, it's hard now and we both have a lot of issues we are dealing with, but we will get through it" And that is sad. They worked so hard to make their family (infertility treatments, financial issues) to let it go down the drain....very sad.


And I'm so familiar with the "potty" words....ugh! Thank goodness DS4's in bed so he can't see his "favorite boys" doing just what mommy keeps telling him not to!
Watching the reruns I noticed how she begged out of a family outing in favor of her own comfort -- she was too sick on the skiing trip to help Jon with the kids, or to go skiing, but she was well enough to go to the spa. She seems to make a habit of out it. Sorry, but if I was Jon I would have cheated on the wench a long time ago. I give him all the props in the world for dealing with her as long as he has. Their marriage obviously doesn't mean anything to her, so why should it matter to him?