minkydog
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The family doc mentioned last year he wanted to check dh for sarcoidosis but wanted to see if adjusting some of his meds would help first. My dh doesn't look sick either to people. And in the warmer weather, he golfs nine holes on the little course around the corner just about every day. People think he must be in good shape because he golfs so much but they don't know that he pushes himself to do it and then sleeps when he gets home. People only see him at his best and think he isn't really disabled.
I know just what you mean. We battled this for years, trying to get DH certified disabled. Of course, at this point it's pretty clear to all his docs that he is indeed quite disabled. But it took a heck of a lot of work to get him there.
J/K! But please be careful that you don't tear your repair! 