Hi Laurie -- late to the party but now all caught up!
I love your dining plans ... I think they are a good mix of WDW experiences. Highly recommend Kona for breakfast! Hard to pick between the Tonga Toast and the Macadamia pancakes!
Loved Food & Wine last year! You and Mike will have a blast. My best advice is to get there right as the food booths open. It got pretty crowded by late afternoon but we were there on a weekend so I am sure it won't be as bad. Definitely scope out a spot for Illuminations an hour early. I would say somewhere between Mexico-Norway-China. If you stake our your spot early, you can "hold your ground" with the crowds. Just sit a bit when the show first ends.
Read some of your ride plans. In AK, I agree to definitely see The Festival of the Lion King and if you can, the Finding Nemo show. It is really well done. Kali River Rapids is very short so not worth a long line (and according to Andrew not worth it at all compared to Grizzly River Run but your mileage may vary). I really enjoy Tusker House breakfast.
We just did the Backlot Tour at DHS this trip after not doing it for several years and I enjoyed it. Also did the Stunt Show. My only "warning" about the Stunt Show is that it take a big chunk of time getting a decent seat, waiting out the show, the show itself and then getting back out. But I did really enjoy it. As for F!, I personally don't think the FL version compares to the CA version but again your mileage may vary. But I do remember the crowds being brutal getting out of there. Derek probably has more recent experience though as we haven't been in years.
So excited for you! I hate that I can't get back to Food & Wine this year and I have yet to get to a
MNSSHP. Hoping Jay and I can sneak in a quickie next September!