I greatly admire & respect Queen Elizabeth. She’s my favorite royal.
I hate that Harry is allowing these things to be said against his family, especially his grandmother, while his 99-year-old grandfather is in the hospital.
I find Meghan to be very petty, hypocritical, & narcissistIc. I also think it’s laughable that anyone would believe her claim that she knew nothing about the royal family before marrying Harry.
What I do believe is that she didn’t fully understand the hierarchy of the royal family &, once she realized that she & Harry & their children weren’t going to be on quite the same level as William & Kate & their children, she was upset... she didn’t like being placed on a lower level than Kate - both literally like the different balcony positions or seatings in church buildings & figuratively - which is, to a point, understandable, but, then a reasonable, gracious person would realized that’s the way things are, learn to adjust accordingly, & move on.
But she didn’t. She wanted all the benefits & “good press” that came from being married to Harry but none of the “hard stuff” (obligations, traditions, censure, public scrutiny...) that also go along w/ the monarchy.
Her attitude came across in little things - like wearing outfits that were as close to bare-shouldered as she could get w/o actually going over the line knowing that the protocol for certain events was for shoulders to be covered - and in larger things as well. She came into the family wanting to rebel & had visions of being the ”People’s Princess” 2.0. And, when it didn’t happen, she became petty & vindictive & started inventing slights against her.
And her inner jealousness & bitterness colored a lot of her perceptions in how she felt people (the royal family, press, the public, etc.) were treating her & came out in how she treated her staff & how she came to the view the royal family, the press, & the public. So now she’s decided to play the “victim“ & has pulled Harry along w/ her.
And, regardless, she’s an adult woman, years older than Diana was when she married Charles. She should have a bit more wisdom & maturity & coping-skills. Every marriage requires some adjustment & compromise. A marriage into the royal family would require even more adjustment & compromise w/ additional time for learning about her new role & the royal protocols... how she didn’t understand or wasn’t aware of that is just beyond me.
I think everyone knows at least one person w/ Meghan‘s kind of personality, & it can be, at the least, exhausting, &, at its worst, toxic.
I couldn’t even watch the interview because I knew it’d make me mad.
I hope the royal family, especially Queen Elizabeth & Prince Philip, see her for what she is & just ignore her w/o letting her negatively influence the monarchy, but I also hope that, eventually, they are able to reconcile w/ Harry.